Guys, Can you have a big crush on a girl and still flirt with other women?

[Anonymous]

Even in front of your crush?

Yeah maybe I would do that

No I would never

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

If he has a crush on you, and neither of you were making a move, he might feel like there's a need to move on and flirt with others in the playing field. If he's doing it to make you jealous, there is the problem. Someone who flirts with others to make someone jealous, might not be dating material.

[Asker]

He stared at me when he saw me again a few days after he flirted with those girls

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

He is either trying to engage you or make you jealous. One of you needs to be forward and confront the situation

[Asker]

engage by doing what?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Let him know that you like him. If you're not comfortable doing that, and he seems like a player, then let it go.

[Asker]

i dont know if he is a player. i think he is just starved for validatoin

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

You might be right :-)

[Asker]

what exactly would you do in my situation?

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

If he doesn't know that you're interested in him, I will try to make it obvious, but you also need to protect yourself. Lotta creeps and individuals with improper motivations in this world.

[Asker]

how would you make it obvious?

[Anonymous]

Absolutely flirting with every girls is our birth rights...

[Asker]

yeah its my right too but i would never do it if i had a crush

[Opinion Owner]

I have crush on all girls..
I have crush on you too. 😊

[Asker]

ok but imagine you had a crush on only one girl..

[Opinion Owner]

You're that one girl I have crush 😘

[Uby10000]

Is it a flirt game you both agreed with? In that case, yes. If you never spoke about anything of this, and flirting with other people isn't the way you tease each other, then ABSOLUTELY NOT

[Asker]

no we have never agreed on anything but he still steals glances when he sits next to her and tries to get my attention when she isn't there

[Uby10000]

He is trying to see if he has the free way for it. I suggest you and him actually talk about it, he can't do it all the time you know, try to ask him why he does this in private so he can be serious on the answer. Try also not to be too much on the defensive or he will feel blocked and will blatantly lie, try to ask him as normal question, without putting too much pressure on him (this way you will know if he is telling the truth or not). If he says that he likes you to tease you this way, then you are ALLOWED TO DO THE SAME TO HIM. It's just how it works, this is why it's so important to speak about it clearly in my opinion.

[YAsQuen]

I have done that. Its to shoot more shots or even annoy you,´.


There is also that thing where the more females like you the more females like you,

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Yes 💯 guys are capable of doing that

[strateguy632]

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