I have a crush on a girl girls can you please read thank you

[Anonymous]

Hi girls. Hi girls. I really hope girls answer this question and not guys. If you can please read my story that would be great. so I went to high school. had a great time throughout my 4 years. In my senior year there was a girl in my class who I had never seen before. The first time I saw her I cringed. I literally stopped what I was doing to look at her. She was beautiful. But at that time I was a BIG guy. I knew that I was nice but I just didn’t think that she would say yes if I asked her out to dinner or an event. So I didn’t approach her all year. Its amazing how small the world is because I found out that most my friends know her and that some are friends with her. The main reason I didn’t do anything was because I was fat. She didn’t know me and I didn’t know her. Inside I knew that if I were to approach this girl I would have to do something not only for her but myself and that is to build confidence and to get healthy. So after a long year of thinking and preparing I started to exercise and eat better. This is now. I have lost a great amount of weight of 41 pounds and I'm still going strong. This summer but I want it to be this winter so that way I can lose more weight and to tell my friends about me having a crush on her, I want to go up to her. But I don’t know what to do. Should I tell her I have had a crush on her since senior year of high school? Should I tell her that the only way to approach her was for me to get healthy first? I also want to say that me losing weight wasn’t all because of her.

I personally wanted to get healthy and do simple tasks like a mile or push up or sit ups without running out of breath. What would be a dream come true is for me to go up to her and tell her that I have always had a crush on her and that I lost all this weight just to talk to her.

Another question is, is this odd/weird? Do you think that she will be impressed? Will she make my dream come true? Please answer nicely.

[Anonymous]

Hey :)

Great Job about your losing weight! That's fantastic! Keep it up!

You should casually ask her out for dinner or a movie or something. Don't bring up something as dramatic as "i've had a crush on you since senior year and I've lost a lot of weight to impress you" cos that's just going to freak her out. In movies, she would go all mushy and be like "awww that's so sweet! <3" but the probability of that happening in real life is much lower. So I suggest you simply ask her out like you would any other date, then if you two hit it on, you could tell her all that and that would flatter her. Just don't say it the first times you see her.

Whatever she says, do not stop your healthy lifestyle. Don't do it for her, do it for yourself. You've gone a long way already so PLEASE do it for nobody else but YOU.

Hope this helped and good luck :)