it all started in senior year of high school. I was in math class when I looked up and saw a girl walk in. this girl was so beautiful, I literally dropped what I was doing to look at her.
at the time I wished I would talk to her. But I knew I was big. lets face it I was fat and I didn't want to just be friends with her if I tried I wanted to ask her out. but because I was fat I didn't allow myself to do anything. so senior year went by and I didn't talk to her and I was still fat and than we graduated June of 2012. than towards the end of 2012 I made a new years resolution for 2013. the resolution was to finally lose weight. there were many reasons why I wanted to lose weight. I wanted to be able to do simple things like push ups, run a mile under 10 minutes. other reasons was to attract girls and yes also to attract this girl that I've never met. so January of 2013 came and I started the weight loss journey and as of right now I've lost 72.5 lbs. and now I want to tell this girl that I've had a crush on her. to let you know, no body knows I have a crush on her including my best friend. so the other night I went onto Facebook to c if she has a profile and her profile picture was with her and a guy. it turns out that they are boyfriend and girlfriend.now it doesn't say there in a relationship, I'm just guessing from the 2 pictures. this was Wednesday aug 21. my reaction was devastating. I couldn't believe it. I became numb. I was depressed, sad, angry, upset and hurt. after a couple of days of letting it sink in, I decided to continue what I'm doing, to lose more weight, to tell my friends, and to tell her. and hopefully she is single by December when I plan to tell her. now girls I need your help. I need to know if this is stupid, if this is extreme, if this is sad. I want your honest opinion but please be nice in the response. I would like know if this is sweet if I told her. what do you think her reaction would be. put yourself in the position of the girl. is this weird? is it odd? please nice responses only. thanks
at the time I wished I would talk to her. But I knew I was big. lets face it I was fat and I didn't want to just be friends with her if I tried I wanted to ask her out. but because I was fat I didn't allow myself to do anything. so senior year went by and I didn't talk to her and I was still fat and than we graduated June of 2012. than towards the end of 2012 I made a new years resolution for 2013. the resolution was to finally lose weight. there were many reasons why I wanted to lose weight. I wanted to be able to do simple things like push ups, run a mile under 10 minutes. other reasons was to attract girls and yes also to attract this girl that I've never met. so January of 2013 came and I started the weight loss journey and as of right now I've lost 72.5 lbs. and now I want to tell this girl that I've had a crush on her. to let you know, no body knows I have a crush on her including my best friend. so the other night I went onto Facebook to c if she has a profile and her profile picture was with her and a guy. it turns out that they are boyfriend and girlfriend.now it doesn't say there in a relationship, I'm just guessing from the 2 pictures. this was Wednesday aug 21. my reaction was devastating. I couldn't believe it. I became numb. I was depressed, sad, angry, upset and hurt. after a couple of days of letting it sink in, I decided to continue what I'm doing, to lose more weight, to tell my friends, and to tell her. and hopefully she is single by December when I plan to tell her. now girls I need your help. I need to know if this is stupid, if this is extreme, if this is sad. I want your honest opinion but please be nice in the response. I would like know if this is sweet if I told her. what do you think her reaction would be. put yourself in the position of the girl. is this weird? is it odd? please nice responses only. thanks
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