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28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like I’m a runway model yet guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches has never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? Even when I was more engaged it still led to the same pattern of no success. A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person? I dated someone for a few months back when I was 23 & after dealing with someone I felt like I settled for, I decided I’d rather be alone vs be with someone I am not crazy for. I’m kind of at the point where I’m apathetic & I just feel too old to be bothered.

It seems like men think that women are dressing up just to seek their attention. When in reality we are usually dressing a certain way for comfort, fashion and or to feel good about ourselves. Very rarely has anything to do with seeking attention from men.

I was vaccinated 4 times against CoVid and also against the flu and flew home from an overseas trip to the island on on the 7th at 9 pm at night and I had cold symptoms the day after but recovered within 7 hours by drinking herbal tea with honey. Is it a virus? Corrupted dirty foods? colds? flus? Stomach flus? My mom also had diarrhea on the 6th too.

So, real life traffic situation that I came into yesterday regarding 'right of way'. Quick synopsis, two vehicles at a two-way stop intersection, who has the 'right of way'?

Check out the photo (actual intersection where it occurred) it has all the information needed. Let's hear your theory!!

I was super surprised how split family & friends have been since telling them what happened. Not going to say which part I played in this little scenario quite yet. And, remember this is not a four-way stop intersection.

#knowtherulesoftheroad

Well, we went on a college trip.. and this guy is from another section, but yeah classmates..
Like there were my few other friends too.. even they were carrying heavy bags.. but he offered me to carry my bags..
I don't know but it felt little weird
And my friends kept asking me if he ur close friend..

Or did he feel that i was so weak to carry my own bags...

I look it as a test to see how relevant you are in their life.

If you're relevant they'll text good morning even if you don't text first for a change.

If you're not relevant they'll only ever text good morning in response to your good morning.

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It may seem silly but it's such a simple courtesy and takes 5 seconds of your time.

If someone can't bother to send a good morning text first they're likely not that engaged in your relationship.

Main that make me say he's lying... Just a few days ago he'd made a quip about he didn't think he was relevant to company so why would boss bother to call him for that long.

There's also the fact he usually texts good morning when he gets up. Has not yet texted. You can see activity on WhatsApp. I'm not texting him good morning as to me for all his claims about how he can't stand people looking for the "next best" (to date) he's doing just that.

For the record, I think anyone, regardless of gender, can enjoy whatever hobby suits them. I am just interested to see if anyone can come up with a hobby that is for one gender only.

The curiosity is because we have a neighbor with a young girl that is into something that is typically seen as a guy "thing" or hobby.

So this guy and I were talking for 2 weeks had a great date, but then the next day he asked me to have sex with him and i declined because it was too fast and i wasn't comfortable with him. He then ghosted me after 3 weeks from me asking to hang out. Then reached out after the 3 weeks wanting to hang out. I politely declined. Then 2 months later his hanging around my work. I text him, we meet up. Then he ghosted me for another 3 weeks. Hanging around my work again. I text him, then he has ghosted me again.

He has a tbi to his frontal lobe so is very impulsive and has no filter...

Works been slow lately especially on the sweet side so I've been helping out with the savoury food, two of the things I made today:

Tomato, olive and cheese pinwheels

Pumpkin and chickpea satay filo (Vegan)

Which would you pick?

I’ve been hanging out with a guy since late December, we have not been on any dates but we do have different schedules. He works day/night shifts and I work from 8-5. Some nights when he gets off work he will come to my house and see me for a few hours. he isn’t just getting some and leaving he Will usually stay for at least 3/4 hours which I think is nice because I know he is tired from work. The other day he was over and my friends was over as well and he sat and talked to them for a good hour even though he didn’t have to and I know he was tired.. but what confuses me is what I’m about to say. after my friends left he made the comment that if my roommate moves out that me and him should live together that it would be nice and I agreed.. but then a little while later we was play fighting and he said that we was friends with benefits and told me to fist bump him? I believe he could tell it hurt my feelings bc I asked him if he was serious and just kinda sat there I didn’t cry but I really wanted too. then when he went to leave to go home I asked him if he was serious about it bc I told him I can not do friends with benefits that I mentally can’t do it that it mentally drives me insane and he just gave me a big long kiss and told me his going to let me figure it out!!! I don’t know if he is kidding or what any of this means and today he snapped me but opened mine and left me on read. I will sometimes do this to him and he mentioned it the other day, not sure is that is why he is doing it or not :( 😒 pls help

I was in a store today and I saw someone fall outside. I went out to see if I could help. By the time I got there a few people had already helped him up. He was much younger than I had anticipated. He had a leg condition I believe and was using a cane as a result. My Intent was to go see if I could be of help. When I arrived I saw there was a little dog in a case, the dog had fallen too.

The store clerk was swinging the dog into the cart. This was unexpected and caught me off guard. The person who had fallen and got up and kind of positioned the dog awkwardly. Honestly at this point I was feeling most badly for the dog bc it had no control over the situation and no one had checked on it. The guy who fell said thank you and moved on. I got the impression he didn’t want any more “ help” I didn’t want to embarrass him or make him feel putties but I also was worried about the dog.

I politely asked him if I could make a suggestion on how to position the case bc I take Bella in there and there’s a way to do it so it lays flat. He didn’t want to do it that way bc then the dog would he on the bottom. Ok I understand that abs I only had like 15 seconds to assess. The dog was calm & looked well groomed so I figured he cared for the dog it was just an awkward moment. I wanted to say more , to offer to help him or the dog but again I didn’t want to embarrass him.

I have a condition and when I fall I really have people gathering around tho I know they are only trying to be kind. I felt really bad walking away bc he had taken a huge fall and the first thing I said was a recommendation. I should’ve said I hope he’s ok if I saw he had a big wipe out if I can help I’d be happy to. If he wanted he to puss off ok but at least he’d know I care.

Being prideful sucks bc you see things through that lens and miss opportunity where help would’ve been good. . If I didn’t feel so awkward when people offer to help, I’d probably have just offered without thinking of it.

hi all:) so around 2022 i was having a little friends with benefits thing but we both were only seeing each-other but on the down low, i wanted to be public but kept seeing each-other for a year because i was so emotionally attached to him and was lusting on him, but at that time i was very open about it too my best friend through out 2021/2022 and would always talk about him to her and sometimes i used to even facetime her crying and telling her what he had just done to me she would always comfort me and down talk him saying ewww you need to leave him and all this but silly me never did.

i finally got out of that toxic cycle & cut it off in jan 23 and i drifted from everyone and found a really nice boy but i found out that they actually recently hooked up at a party on the weekend and i asked her about it and she literally just said she went for a walk with him made up a story, but at the end of the day i found out everything cos he can’t keep his mouth closed, HOW DISRESPECTFUL CAN GIRLS BEEEE