Polls

Ex. "I don't like your outfit."

Who'd think this has a deeper meaning than what has been said?

Ex. "I'm sick so I can't meet you today."

Who's more likely to think of this as a rejection or that something else is going on aside from actually being sick?

by the way I'm literally just curious about your thoughts. It's not about who's better men vs. women. And... I just gave you another example because I'm sure some people are more likely to think this question is about men vs. women instead of what I said.

My previous MyTake about business clothing differences between men and women got me thinking. In our society it's generally seen as acceptable that women wear pants (albeit only certain types like skinny jeans or leggings), except for certain situations like formal or business occasions. On the other hand, it is unacceptable for men to wear any skirt/dress at all.

Is this fair? I'd argue that it is. Traditionally women wore skirts, but this changed when women started to be recognized more equally in American city. Skirts aren't as practical as pants, so women started wearing them, and it became acceptable. Men, on the other hand, have no reason to wear skirts. They're just dressing in a more unpractical garment, when pants have always worked fine.

That's just my opinion though, what's yours? Should standards allow men to wear skirts, remain the same, *or* go back to the old standards of allowing women only to wear skirts.

I'm in a search for these jeans. I love the light wash.

I found these on Etsy. I think they are pretty similar, almost the same, what about you guys?

Please take into account that both jeans have been shot differently, different lightning and so on.

Of course it’s unlikely any of us can definitively say he’s 100% guilty or innocent, but I’m curious to see where people lean on the issue.

He’d only slept with overweight girls before me and I’m petite. I wasn’t into sex much either.

But he’d take 30-40 mins. He went to the gym daily and was super fit. He said he was trying to impress me since he knew I was out his league. He never tried to impress others.

Is it because he wasn’t attracted to me. Now he barely lasts 5 mins with me. He doesn’t go to the gym daily and said he’s not trying to impress me that much now. But he has to pull out to pace to that point.

Let's take into consideration that they both meet your other requirements.

If you don’t want to spend much or anything on an engagement ring; are you also fine with her and your kids not taking your last name?

or NOT be friends with her?

VOTE BELOW!

I actually hear this often from strangers. I love it ahh

This came up when I was planning spring break with some of my friends... personally I love them. They accentuate my waist, are incredibly flattering, and still look cute without showing a lot of skin. My friends, on the other hand, think that they are frumpy and look like diapers._.

I have always had a tendency to be hasty & remove people from my life on social media & overall when there’s an issue. I am very selective when it comes to people so I don’t think that I’m a bad judge of character or settle with friendships/relationships for the sake of having company. Maybe it isn’t hasty bc I think it through for a while before I do it, I don’t want to label it either as this is apparently a trait of Borderline Personality Disorder. Maybe there’s nothing wrong with me & I just don’t like people?

Anyway, I had gamer friends through an online game & we’ve been talking for a little over 2 years. It was more frequent around peak COVID & as of recently we haven’t been in contact as often. There’s one I like more than the other (as a person not romantically) & he’s better at gaming but he has a tendency to make conceited remarks that have rubbed me the wrong way for a while. It’s been a while since he made one but it’s been gnawing at me. The other one is ditzy, he annoys me & while he also has said things that irritated me, I was quicker to delete the other one. I just deleted the ditzy one today bc it didn’t make sense to keep one & not the other, as the better one who I was closer to was online more often. The better one wished me a merry Christmas & I left his message on seen. I don’t think he realizes that he’s been deleted, it’s been a few weeks. The ditzy guy might catch on quicker, they’re both still online friends but rarely talk.