Reality check time: how is your relationship going? What is it giving you? How strong is your bond?

[quaranta]

Taking in account it's impossible to frame each relationship under a 2-lines description, please select the option that matches your situation more closely.

A strong bond made of full mutual trust, safety, connection, alliance. We are ourselves, fully vulnerable to each other.

Some stress peaks during monthly conflicts, but mostly reconciliation and stability. We still feel a strong connection, trusting each other.

A rollercoaster: one week we hate each other, one week we love each other. It's unpredictable and demanding, I have continuous doubts and afterthoughts.

A lot of tension, I walk on eggshells all the time and I'm not sure of my partner's reactions or next moves, I can't be myself. Hope is the only thing that keeps me there.

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A total of 49 votes were cast: 23 girls and 26 guys. See detailed results

[PrettyPriya]

I voted for the first option. That is the way that it has always been with me and my SO. He is a wonderfully thought and kind person. His personality, character, morals and values all line up with mine.

We look at our relationship as a team. We both have our strengths and weaknesses. So, we depend on each other in many aspects of life. There is implicit trust and respect between us. I can give a lot of examples of this.

I have always believed that unless two people can arrive at that mutual respect and trust, there is not likely going to be a strong connection or bond between them. Really, the things listed there all go hand in hand.

A healthy relationship will always have some ups and downs, but it is how two people can come together and deal with the downs and tougher times that defines the strength of their relationship. I am fortunate to have met someone that is as a perfect fit for me as I am for him.

[petitedollbabee]

Things have been a bit rough this month with stressful situations being thrown our way, but one hiccup in almost two years of a relationship is to be expected. Overall still going strong, still completely trust each other and love each other, and we’re still completely open with each other. So going great.

[Zbrody1997]

I just got out of one because she admitted I was an experiment to see if she was lesbian or not before leaving me at rock bottom though it wasn’t gonna last because she provided me with nothing, while I worked my ass off to get her going

[Alex8736]

any relationship has to be a 2 way street whether it's family, business, etc and definitely communication

[JustinTheGreat]

I voted for B. Not gonna lie, I’m sad I couldn’t vote for A. I would have chose A a few months ago.
Some shit happened between us and now the trust isn’t as strong as it used to be and I’ve been becoming more doubtful. Ever since that happened I feel I’ve become more aware of ways he mistreats me. Not that he treats me any different than he always has. I’ve just been noticing more and becoming more bothered by it.

[Crmolon]

I feel the exact same with my situation

[ariadneR]

A. There's nothing i can't t tell this man. Our communication, trust, vulnerability is all 100% transparent.

This is by far the most rewarding and fulfilling relationship I've ever been in.

[hiddenheart]

A. I just got engaged to my fiancé. Things couldn't be better. The wedding will be this spring and my kids have come to see him as their father

[SnowedIn]

The first option.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Single

[Anonymous]

C&D.