We went out on 3 dates and he has not kissed me yet?

[Anonymous]

I met him through my sister and he’s a really close buddy of her from her uni, Few months ago I heard they were talking about relationsships and my sister said “my sister thinks the same that she won’t find a man and die single” between all this him and I were in contact but very respectful to one another but since this conversation between them he did initiate to take me out , my question is does he really think there could be a potential chance between us or since he seems like a genuine person who cares took this situation-ship as a sympathy to make me feel better and wanted? All that in mind I am confused he did take me out for dinner 3 times , we’ve really gotten to know each-other… it seems too good to be true and he wants to take me out to the bar tomorrow which I have said yes to.. he is a great man who cares but I'm assuming he feels pity that I don’t have anyone which is true, my best friend and I stopped talking.. maybe he feels the need to fill that space.. I don’t know I’m so confused.. I like him, he’s a great guy but we’re not in that level of asking each-other what are we..

He’s being a good friend

He likes you

[abc3643]

This so much reminds me of me (the shy guy) and my first girlfriend.
This was likely December 1980 or early 1981 right around when I turned 18 and she was 16. I was a senior in high school and she was a junior who was a friend that I met 2 years earlier. I was tutoring her in physics, but she really didn't need tutoring...

___I___ needed tutoring... in making out!

So, one night, we are in her basement. I think we had been playing ping pong. She went upstairs to get an orange. She comes back down with the orange and we shared it and I kissed her on the side of the cheek to thank her. Next thing I know, this girl is French kissing me. I was in shock and happy! When we stop, she says "It's about time, Vin."

So, he may be just like me - not wanting to blow it and be too forward and/or he can be a "shy guy". Believe it or not, lots of guys were brought up to still be old-fashioned and keep our hormones in check. We only act when it is clear and unambiguous that we can make a physical expression of romance. The last thing we want is drama or awkwardness from unwanted attention like that and she reacting not as we hoped.

[Guy13]

Maybe 😎, he needs a beer booster. That’s what my crowd calls it since COVID. Maybe, he needs a little kissy 😘 booster 🍸 🫒 🍸🫒.

You make him sound like a good man. Hope that works out right for you.

[AmyHew1tt]

I can't see him taking you on three dates, going on four just out of sympathy unless he's an idiot, and it hasn't occurred to him you'll take this to mean he's interested in you. Maybe if your next meeting goes well, try initiating something? Even just holding his hand or something like that.

[Changiis07]

He is taking you on dates that means he likes you and specially if he is taking the time to do that and pay as well. Not all guys kiss on a third day maybe he doesn't know where you stand with him

[coachTanthony]

https://www.wikihow.com/Get-a-Guy-to-Kiss-You

[Summeroflove]

If he’s going out he’s probably interested. If you want to do something. He can’t read your mind. Ask him for a kiss if you want one.

[AviatorTom]

If you want to be kissed and he hasn't kissed you yet, why not kiss him?

[Fireguy17]

so kiss him.
Some guys are pretty shy, they don't know if they should, they don't want to scare you away, he might be afraid that you will tell her that he is not a good kisser, all sorts of things.
Now the ball is in your court, if you like him let him know and plant one on him.
That will tell you if he is interested in you.

[FilmGuy93]

Well... it's not a ton of information to go on, but my intuition says that he's genuinely interested. What have you been doing to physically tell him that you want to kiss? Not many women realize that they have to demonstrate that they are receptive for men to feel comfortable making a move.

[Jamie05rhs]

It sounds to me like:

1. Your sister hooked you guys up.

2. He's a good guy. (Your sister would never have introduced you two if she didn't believe that this was the case.)

3. He respects your sister.

4. He respects you.

and

5. He likes you.


I see no issues here. I see only green flags!

[Naiomiiiii]

I think you can pick it up from the conversations you have does he try to make any physical contact, and the eye contact
For the kiss, he might be shy, conservative or maybe just respectful ( personally it would make me feel more valuable if the guy doesn't try to kiss me, or maybe it's just bcz I'm conservative 😅)

[Static_In_The_Attic]

In life if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to tell them & in your case you shouldn’t be afraid to show them. You went out on three dates & he hasn’t kissed you, how come you don’t kiss him?

[Stevefiveo]

He is very shy. You might have to hint at the kiss.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I personally think that even a shy guy would try to kiss you or get really close in any way.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe he’s old fashion taking it real slow or maybe you have been friend zoned

[Anonymous]

He could have a Madonna whore complex. Some guys don't want to view women they like in a sexual manner.

[he-takes-a-part]

hahaha