Should I worry he hasn't initiated contact in 2 days? after 3rd date...

[desertrose576]

I'm worried that a guy who expressed interest in me and we went out on 3 dates has suddenly lost interest. He came to my house and nothing physically happened. He seems to be very respectful. He's 27 and I'm 37. I'm divorced and he's single. He told me he works a lot (70 hrs/week), but he seemed to enjoy my company. We talked a lot. He asked a lot of things about me, and I asked a lot of things about him. He brought pizza Monday night (our first day), beer and cinnamon rolls (he said these were just for me because he knows I like them... very sweet). So yesterday, Tuesday, he never contacted me and I texted him. He replied he was having a hard day at work. Today I decided to call him. He answered and said he was busy, and would call me after work but he never called. I'm beginning to worry... should I? We seemed to have clicked, although we were sitting beside each other watching the movie we never really kissed or held hands or hugged. What should I do? It's been 2 days he hasn't initiated contact... only I texted and called. Any tips, please? Thank you!

[Anonymous]

No, don't worry about it. He will get back with you. If he doesn't in a week, then time to move on and find someone else. And he will be missing out on a girl that would have cared for him. Be Patient. :)

[desertrose576]

You know, today an older friend of mine decided to call this guy's company to make a complaint of him hitting on me. It was the worse thing someone could have done as a friend, to me. This guy was actually the plumber who came over when I had a busted pipe, but he left me his phone # because he said I was a nice person and he'd like to know me. So I chose to call him, and he came over after work (off the clock), with his personal truck, and he never said anything sexual or never harassed me.

[Anonymous]

It seems that he's just busy.

You should try to meet him more in person.

[desertrose576]

I'm trying but he's always so busy. I ask him when we are going to get together again. Oh boy this is getting me worried... I think he's a good guy.

[barfi]

if I were you id put my guard up a little bit you know... id be careful

[desertrose576]

What do you mean put the guard up? how? Thank yoU!

[barfi]

i meant that I would be careful with him as in showing my interest towards this guy because if he is too busy now after 3 dates, then if I were to hav a relationship with , then what would happen if he cared so much about you he would make time for u. I know this because I also happen to work a lot but I still make time for the guy that I like you know, just to let him knw I m still into him. if you know what I mean