Polls

(Asking on behalf of myself.) Recently been diagnosed with melanoma and wondering whether this diagnosis or melanoma surgery scars would impact how the opposite sex feels towards me. Will be a good way of distinguishing the superficial from the genuinely good men though! Also scars are the least of my worried, a tiny part of the overall badness of melanoma. Please be honest with your response. Thank you.

how did you deal with the situation?

when you have a crush on someone, do you start liking them instantly or does it take some time for it to develop for you? also what attracts you to them?

how did it go?

My family and I are currently suffering from it right now =( It's a good thing though that I am well on my way to getting better.

This woman was BORN was a woman.

Now imagine a woman who shares many interests guys have (sports, fishing, camping, etc.) with the same depth & passion;
Has a technical (an engineer) and goal-orientated mind prefering logic not emotion to deal with conflict or decisions about sensitive topics (e. g. politics);
Is confident & insightful about many topics due to being educated, open minded & intelligent;
Takes initivate and does not sit on her hands, she grabs life by the horns, having bought into her own investments such as stocks & real estate;
Is self confident, self assured and is neither insecure, anxious or flighty / easy going and generous with a trustworthy nature;

Is well appericated by other people for her willingness to volunteer or help, her open minded approach towards others / treating them as she would want to be, etc.

It can happen to anyone. Sometimes the unexpected happens at visitations and funerals (after all, the first three letters in funeral spell fun).

During a Wednesday evening visitation, I walked into one of our chapels and found a micro mini Highland heifer wandering around making friends with and getting scratched by all the visitors. She was friendly, adorable, very well groomed, and well-behaved. No poop anywhere either (thankfully). She showed up at a side entrance wanting in, so one little boy opened the door and let her in. She was a hit, and brought smiles to a lot of otherwise somber faces. The first thing I thought of was at last, livestock for people like @BigPauly and me.

Someone looked on a Facebook lost pets page and found someone desperately looking for her. Her name is Oprah, she's a pet. She looks like the heifer in the picture, but doesn't have black inside her ear flaps. She got out of her enclosure and wandered about three blocks over. Oprah is now safely back with her family, doing whatever mini-moos do.

What would you do if a mini-moo showed up at one of your functions?

I have a non romantic relationship with a guy. We have a history dating back to high school where we started as crushes, became friends and planned a relationship. Things did not work out and over the past few years we have lost contact and reconnected a few times. He is in a relationship, I am single and focused on completing a goal. Just to make it clear we do not flirt, or revisit the past so we are 100% platonic. In the past we spoke non stop. At present we just randomly message each other with well wishes or if we need to talk something over. The frequency of our interactions makes me believe we are acquaintances. The conversations are usually why have I not done this or am I wrong. The topics feel like a conversation one would have with a friend. I am not sure what to consider him, friend, acquaintance or neither?