I read it as a let down which when he commented he'd gone out with simple minded overly attractive cheap & sleazy women - one he even called a horror story himself - before is a rather shitty insult.
The thing is, is we had engaging interesting conversation before the date. And I am not unattractive - that is something many people have said. Yes I put on some weight due to Covid but I blatantly told the guy on our date I'm working to loose it, even spending 3 hours each time at gym various times in the week.
If not interested just fucking say so. His text >...
Good morning, I hope you had a nice weekend with some rest and relaxation. I have been innundated with classes the last couple of days.
I also wanted to share X how I’ve been feeling on a different level. I am enjoying getting to know you, what brings you happiness, what drives you and how you add happiness in to the world of others. You are a remarkable person.
I owe it to you and myself to share I’m not certain I feel connected across all levels in regards to compatibility.
These are never comfortable moments to share with someone but I have to communicate this to you and be transparent on where I’m at. I hope you can appreciate this honesty as I would never want to be hurtful by not sharing these feelings.
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The best thing that happened to you was that this prick was a prick on the front end so that your heart did not get crushed later. We all continually learn that the person on the App is not the person we are going to meet and their is no clearer case of that than this guy. From my perspective, be thankful that the real guy showed up early. Better luck in the future !!
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What annoyed me the most if we'd good compatability before meeting on a date. I told the guy blatantly during the date that I was working to lose weight. And as said I am not unattractive, that is something I have heard from other men & women alike. Hell even a cosmetic salesperson refused to sell me makeup because, in her words, I have lovely skin.
His lose. He's shallow, etc & really as such not much worth to a woman who isn't overly attractive but dimwitted & sleasy aka an achieve nothing gold digger.
Yeah, definitely his loss as you are expressive with intelligence. You'll be fine and he'll be... who knows where.
C. He's friend zoned you. But Id say B could apply too.
When he told me during the date that he'd essentially gone out with overly attractive but dimwitted / sleasy women beforehand it's a friendzone. Unfortunate as we had good compatiability before the date but he obviously doesn't know a good woman when he sees one so why waste my time?
You are correct. Why bother?