Polls

I personally don’t find it unattractive when people peacock.. but I’m a bit strange with my measurements of attractive. I’m attracted to words, comprehension of ideas, humour and intellect… I’d later be attracted to physical attributes if all these initial traits stacked up… but if the persons initial ‘advertisement’ was all out appearance based I’d not pursue getting to know them.

I recently got these things cause some of y'all on my other question said I was being too extreme packing on my road trip so I decided to invest in other self defense weapons to stay safe. But now I'm wondering if these are actually any better?

When traveling somewhere new, do you bring a weapon for protection?

And yes I understand in some places knuckles and stun guns are illegal. I'm speaking in general are self defense weapons helpful for protecting women?

So a common trope I hear is “you think too much”

Sure I’ve had it said to me but I’m sure many people have & that’s not why I’m asking about it. I’m also not asking what people may be referring to when they say this, bc I think it means very different things to different people

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For some it’s worrying

others it’s too much I intensity

others they just don’t want to think about whatever the topic is

others they may not understand
Others it means asking too many questions

others it’s being bothered etc etc

So whatever it is they think they are saying by “don’t think too much”, I wonder according to them, what is the alternative?

“you think too much” OK as apposed to what?

When you stop doing one thing you are do another, so stop thinking & do what?

if I’m walking & I stop, I’m standing , sitting, laying down. Flying swimming—I’m not just “not walking”

The it’s said as an accusation sounds very unserious as if they haven’t thought much about what they are saying which is kinda apropos 👀 😂

We've all had this happen

How would you react?

I don't exactly know why, but I get turned ON by seeing a nice pair of exposed female thighs in short shorts. Men's legs can be pretty nice too but they don't wear as short as shorts as women, and also are hairier, which I dislike. These three photos I put here? Definitely a huge turn on for me.

***Mine without The Beard. lol!!! xx

At the end is my initial question.

I’ve heard it said you can tell a lot about a guy by his date idea.

So I’m kinda thinking that depending on what he suggests to do I can tell more about him as a person.

So what kind of date in your opinion should be a “Yes” or “No”

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I’m a 21 and I’ve gotten to know a guy who is 38 years old.

He really nice, has no kids, no drama, pretty successful in life, and TBH he’s kinda cute. He’s quieter, tall, and easygoing.

From everything I’ve been able to find out about him he’s always been really focused on his career and just never really prioritized having a girlfriend.

Well he’s made it clear he likes me…

Pleez only serious answers!

This guy who I asked out a couple back said that he's not intimidated when a girl asks him out. That, instead, he perceives her as confident. A guy associate said the same thing to me. He told me how attractive it is! What are your povs?