If your child came out as transgender. Would you support them?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I love my kids very much and I will always love them and there's one thing that I have always told them and that is no matter what goes on in life I will always be there for you I don't care what it is I will be there for you so I feel the same way that is their choice not mine and I'd have to honor their choice even if I didn't like it I would still honor and I would not tell them I didn't like it I believe in when you have children you raise them to be the best that they can be erase them so they're better than you and their choices are their choices we get to choose who we want to be in life by the things that we say and do and I've always taught that to my kids so I'd have to honor that too it is what it is

Adam1978 · Accepted Answer

Not a chance that would happen. I would raise my kids with logic and rational thinking. Something these people completely lacks. I would learn kids to accept what they got and do the best with it. I wouldn't care if a daughter wants to play with cars or if my boy wants to be a nurse. Those I can support. The same if they come out as gay or bisexual. Maybe even if they want to be drag queens. But transgender is pure stupidity built on wishes and unicorns. Has nothing to do with reality and isn't healthy in any form.

Sour-rose · Accepted Answer

If they can pass, fine. I know no one is gonna hear me but i'm not against ALL trans folk. Just those who are fake. But those who are not fake and try anyways, good for them. But if you can't pass for shit, I'm gonna think you're a creep of some kind or just a noob... a poor foolish noob. SOoo if I had kids who came out as trans, I'd be willing to support them. But i ain't makin it easy. The world kills anyone who they don't agree with, so it's best they experience that.

BlueScorpio · Accepted Answer

I love them but no I don't think I can agree with/or get on board with that. I would start questioning whats making them feel this way and probably try to get some form council. We know today a lot this is coming from the media and push from certain people even in the school system now. I just couldn't handle seeing my son, who I know is my son trying to change themselves into something they are not. It's basically encouraging/accepting a lie.

Anonymous · Answer

I would tell him what he's learning in school is bs and you should love yourself and your body. You don't need surgery and it's normal for a guy to have a crossdressing fetish. Most men are attracted to women so it's only natural he'd get turned on by women's clothing because that's what Men like on a woman. They like seeing women in Lingerie, so its normal for a guy to want to try in what he finds sexy. It's normal and he's not a woman in a man's body. And he should who is and don't listen to the nonsense that the school teaches him.

RosieMelts · Answer

That’s exactly why I’m not having kids. I couldn’t deal with the stress 😂😂

Especially birthing them in to a world where they’d be learning nearly double in history

probably unnecessary things in technology, like the flipping metaversace.. or whatever that is lol

and this ‘closed-off’ thing with young people in social media and the amount of fakers plastered on the social elites: with plastic faces and boøbs, and medically treated dxcks.

I navigated that myself, but why would I want to see someone I cared for so passionately, fight such a heart clenching fight. I wouldn’t just lose my hair or have a heart attack

my kids would be the only thing that kills me, and makes me go officially extinct 😂😭👍

Guy__ · Answer

If I ever have a child, I'd keep them away from propaganda and prioritize high quality education and healthy development. Which lowers the trannification likelihood close to zero. And if it happens to be a rare natural event, I may accept trannifying them. But I know it never happens without propaganda.

hahahmm · Answer

A person who changes gender is disowning his family. By showing him the door I am just confirming his choice. It's like asking me if I would disown a child for doing a crime or disrespecting innocent family members in a major way. Absolutely.

I'm sure they can find another family that is more suited to their life choices.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Wouldn't support it nor be opposed to it.
It wouldn't change the fact they are still my child and wouldn't change anything about them since if they are a guy by sex but a girl by gender they would of been acting and feeling that way for some time so it wouldn't really come as a shock.
Unless if they were godly at hiding it. But hide it from me? Trust me people know and my children would know I couldn't careless about conservative views therefore I would never have a problem with them be so, so why would they hide it?

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

I wouldn't be surprised but I'm not sure what I would say. I'd probably want them ignore whatever they're feeling until they're functioning adult because of all the LGBTQ propaganda being pushed on kids right now.

Anonymous · Answer

Let’s say I won’t support them? So what? will my child change their mind. Or give a ****
Not at all
At the end of the day I want to love my child.
So I guess love wins
And I will support them

If you don’t support them well have fun in a death bed you trying to pRotEcT the wOrLd and not your own creation. You got it.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Chose b because i can't simply tolerate such facts!

Never understood such behavior but if he's born like that and couldn't do a thing to change him or her, i cannot kill them oe dump them, i'd still love them but will always feel uncomfortable because my mind is set to see women as women and men as men!

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

It depends on the age. I wouldn't disown my 8 year old but my 25 year old yes I would. If they had lived with me for 18 years they'd know how I view certain things. I believe transgender is a mental disorder. Being gay is absolutely fine and I would not have any issues with that but transgenders are an example of this society being so well off we need to create new issues to create drama and prevent boredom

glowingrachel · Answer

Yes they would get my support, I do think the age matters though, I'd support it 100% if they're in high school or beyond that, any earlier than that I'd sit them down and discuss it with them because it is such a drastic life choice to make. I think people often times get gender and sex mixed up, your gender is simply what you identify as in societal constructs.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I don't know i don't wish that happen to anyone as humans we are wired to have some unique identity to leave our lives

We have built our civilization on knowing and differentiating and following a certain path.

It will be confusing for the kids , and the hell the preachings in west world nowadays having a multitude of sexes fuck the kids are confused about their own gender as people are making them to think that it's like changable and options are available.

And in the end it will mess up mentalities.

The ones who are confused about their own body it will be hard for them to focus on other things.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Dunno. I want them to be happy. But I suppose I don't fully understand the mind of transgender people. What is it that they feel makes them the other gender? I've never sat down with anyone and had a conversation about it.

Matafuko · Answer

It's a semantic problem. You can be a feminine boy and wear dresses and stuff if you want, but you're still a boy. It's fine if you believe sex and gender are separate things but the social binary male/female, man/woman, boy/girl is based on sex - not gender - so gender fluidity should actually not affect anything in reality.

Guy13 · Answer

No as it is fundamentally wrong. And I would be condoning an ever increasing slippery slide. they are adults and will live with their own life choice consequences...

Jacobbbb · Answer

Yeah of course they're my child that I physically made. Gonna support them and love them regardless of what happens

genericname85 · Answer

i'd call them out on their bullshit and send them to a psychologist. you don't self identify as transgender. you either suffer from gender transphoria, in which case i'd listen to what the psychologist suggests or you're a gay transvestite, in which case it's your life your choice but not my business.

shark58 · Answer

I am not sure about this kind of disorder. I know that the suffering of these people is extreme. I also know that they have a high suicide-rate. To judge people without knowing the situation they are in (which is generally not possible, can only be estimated) is not a very smart action. Guidence by a team of specialists is therefore recommendable und a decision can be made after weighting the whole picture and surrounding facts.

Libertycityguy · Answer

My wife and I would have a war. When your 18 and an adult then you can dress as Napoleon if you want but under a certain age no way. I would think it was someone in school swaying her that way or a mental health issue.

MCheetah · Answer

I'd consider myself a failure as a parent and blame it all on me for ruining my child's life and mental health.

Pink2000 · Answer

I would support them but I can’t lie and say I wouldn’t have a problem with it. That’s still my kid and I couldn’t imagine cutting my child off.

jasco · Answer

I would love my children regardless of what they become unless their criminals. Honestly tho I don't support/nor am I against LGTBQ. Personally tho I don't wanna see any of it. If you wanna be gay or whatever please do it somewhere else

Anonymous · Answer

I would support and give them the unconditional love they need because that is what good parents do.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

Yes, I will accept them. Who am I to control an individual's life? After all, it's their mind, body, and choice. As long as they have a good heart and do what is right, I will accept them it that will make them happy and have confidence for themselves.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Depends on the age. If thier like 13 or older maybe, at that point they might actually understand what they are saying. Younger than that nope, and I'd have serious questions for the people at school grooming my kid.

Subarugirl · Answer

I would absolutely support my child, though everyone’s idea of what support looks like is a little different

Kreneman · Answer

I would seek Spiritual counseling and still love them.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

In short no. I would get them psychiatric help

Hardworkingguy · Answer

If I ever had a child that turned out to be transgender in the future I will try to be as supportive as possible regardless of that

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

I'm too young for that but I would never let go of my child as long as they don't hurt others... It would be super hard to accept them when they're like that as I probably won't do it with strangers.. But they're not a stranger.. They're my kid.. I chose for them to exist and I have to take care of them as long as I'm alive...

joeldalton · Answer

I would get them the mental health they need to be comfortable with the gender they were born to.

Anonymous · Answer

The key word here being "child."

Little Boy: "Hey Daddy! Look! I'm a dinosaur!"
Me: "Haha, that's adorable! Go on and play!"

Little Boy: "Hey Daddy! Look! I'm a girl!"
Me: "Haha, that's funny! Go on and play!"

Little Boy: "Hey Daddy! Look! I'm transgender!"
Me: "... Uh... Where did you learn that?"

Snsl153 · Answer

I have no idea what I'd do, how I'd handle such a situation. Thankfully I don't have children, so I'll never have to worry about it :)

skyee_727 · Answer

it's not that i wouldn't accept or support but i'd need to ask what made them think that way

Anonymous · Answer

I would accept them. Support thier CHOICE? not so much. I just wouldn't really talk about it to them.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

For a kid I think psychological help would be necessary. As such a kid it'll be hard in school with their peers and when puperty hit it'll be hard for them to find thrmselves and question everything

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I don't support nor disown them. I'd disregard their transgenderism and treat them like how i'd treat my son or daughter (which ever they originally came out first)

Supermomof3 · Answer

Yes, but I wouldn’t agree with them. But they are my child and my child can do no wrong lol

Sorrento-Sun · Answer

Yes. I love my children unconditionally. I'd never disown them or turn my back on them. I'd support them 100%

andreasderjuengere · Answer

This disease is unknown and unheard of in my family tree. I would think that my kid is joking around with me.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

My child so love them no matter what even if don't fully understand it because never felt that way

Jenny-Marie · Answer

Of course, why wouldn't I? Love should be unconditional.

MountAverage · Answer

Yes of course, why would I not support my own child? What kind of parent would I be if I didn't?

Googlemyahoo · Answer

I would respect their right to live how they wanted to although I wouldn’t agree with their lifestyle.

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Yes if a mother didn't support their children, who else?🤔

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I would always love them but I would tell them honestly how I feel about it and try to support them mentally and physically through the ordeal

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

I’d be lying if I said I wouldn’t have a little bit of a problem with it but they are my child so I’ll love and support them no matter what

SolitarySolace · Answer

I’m never having children

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

They are no longer my kids.

msc545 · Answer

It might be difficult to put up with but they're still your child

888theGreat · Answer

I would support them by putting them in an mental institution

AngelOfLight258 · Answer

Yes, without a second thought.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Love? Yes. Support? Absolutely not.

AsaKyo · Answer

I'd tell them to get out

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

EffHoffmanForum · Answer

Not in a thousand years

BeMuse · Answer

Nope.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd support them but I would be sad.

duttyjamagyal · Answer

Of course not

Iron_Man · Answer

Nooe

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