If your child came out as transgender. Would you support them?

[Missgingles]

I'm asking simply by intresst. All opinions are respected!:)

Yes! Always! No matter their identity!

I would still love them but would seek psychological help to treat them towards their sex (not gender)

No I would disown them

[ohsheeT]

I love my kids very much and I will always love them and there's one thing that I have always told them and that is no matter what goes on in life I will always be there for you I don't care what it is I will be there for you so I feel the same way that is their choice not mine and I'd have to honor their choice even if I didn't like it I would still honor and I would not tell them I didn't like it I believe in when you have children you raise them to be the best that they can be erase them so they're better than you and their choices are their choices we get to choose who we want to be in life by the things that we say and do and I've always taught that to my kids so I'd have to honor that too it is what it is

[Missgingles]

Thats really sweet! Glad you are a dedicated father. Its great to see.

Thankyou for commenting:)

[Adam1978]

Not a chance that would happen. I would raise my kids with logic and rational thinking. Something these people completely lacks. I would learn kids to accept what they got and do the best with it. I wouldn't care if a daughter wants to play with cars or if my boy wants to be a nurse. Those I can support. The same if they come out as gay or bisexual. Maybe even if they want to be drag queens. But transgender is pure stupidity built on wishes and unicorns. Has nothing to do with reality and isn't healthy in any form.

[Jenny-Marie]

If you wish to troll at least try to achieve reasonable grammar.

[Missgingles]

I completly understand what you mean and agree with a lot of what you said. Thankyou for commenting!😊

[Missgingles]

@Adam1978 was talking to you

[Sour-rose]

If they can pass, fine. I know no one is gonna hear me but i'm not against ALL trans folk. Just those who are fake. But those who are not fake and try anyways, good for them. But if you can't pass for shit, I'm gonna think you're a creep of some kind or just a noob... a poor foolish noob. SOoo if I had kids who came out as trans, I'd be willing to support them. But i ain't makin it easy. The world kills anyone who they don't agree with, so it's best they experience that.

[Missgingles]

I see! Tough love! It can help. Thankyou for sharing!

[BlueScorpio]

I love them but no I don't think I can agree with/or get on board with that. I would start questioning whats making them feel this way and probably try to get some form council. We know today a lot this is coming from the media and push from certain people even in the school system now. I just couldn't handle seeing my son, who I know is my son trying to change themselves into something they are not. It's basically encouraging/accepting a lie.

[Missgingles]

100% agree!

Thankyou for commenting:)

[Anonymous]

I would tell him what he's learning in school is bs and you should love yourself and your body. You don't need surgery and it's normal for a guy to have a crossdressing fetish. Most men are attracted to women so it's only natural he'd get turned on by women's clothing because that's what Men like on a woman. They like seeing women in Lingerie, so its normal for a guy to want to try in what he finds sexy. It's normal and he's not a woman in a man's body. And he should who is and don't listen to the nonsense that the school teaches him.

[Missgingles]

Thats kinda sweet in a way. Makes sence what you are saying too. Thankyou for commenting:)

[Opinion Owner]

I am have nothing against gay people lesbians though as long as love themselves i see nothing wrong. I just don't like adults who confuse young children into having gender dysphoria and teaching to hate themselves and their biology.

[Opinion Owner]

I have nothing*

[Missgingles]

I agree! Its more of something cool to follow today than to actually be LGBTQ. Or thats what they want us to do.

[RosieMelts]

That’s exactly why I’m not having kids. I couldn’t deal with the stress 😂😂

Especially birthing them in to a world where they’d be learning nearly double in history

probably unnecessary things in technology, like the flipping metaversace.. or whatever that is lol

and this ‘closed-off’ thing with young people in social media and the amount of fakers plastered on the social elites: with plastic faces and boøbs, and medically treated dxcks.

I navigated that myself, but why would I want to see someone I cared for so passionately, fight such a heart clenching fight. I wouldn’t just lose my hair or have a heart attack

my kids would be the only thing that kills me, and makes me go officially extinct 😂😭👍

[Guy__]

If I ever have a child, I'd keep them away from propaganda and prioritize high quality education and healthy development. Which lowers the trannification likelihood close to zero. And if it happens to be a rare natural event, I may accept trannifying them. But I know it never happens without propaganda.

[Missgingles]

Thankyou for sharing! I understand it wouldn't be easy:)

[hahahmm]

A person who changes gender is disowning his family. By showing him the door I am just confirming his choice. It's like asking me if I would disown a child for doing a crime or disrespecting innocent family members in a major way. Absolutely.

I'm sure they can find another family that is more suited to their life choices.

[Missgingles]

I see. In what way do you feel they are disowning their family? :)

[hahahmm]

@missgingles. They are rejecting what their parents & ancestors gave them. Not just physical form but cultural & spiritual. A child has no right to parent themselves.. if they want to do something their parents don't agree with then they can find the door.

[Missgingles]

I see. thankyou for sharing:)

[Kaneki05]

Wouldn't support it nor be opposed to it.
It wouldn't change the fact they are still my child and wouldn't change anything about them since if they are a guy by sex but a girl by gender they would of been acting and feeling that way for some time so it wouldn't really come as a shock.
Unless if they were godly at hiding it. But hide it from me? Trust me people know and my children would know I couldn't careless about conservative views therefore I would never have a problem with them be so, so why would they hide it?

[Missgingles]

Great that you accept your kids! Sweet!:) thanks for commenting

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I wouldn't be surprised but I'm not sure what I would say. I'd probably want them ignore whatever they're feeling until they're functioning adult because of all the LGBTQ propaganda being pushed on kids right now.

[Missgingles]

I understand that. It has really gone so far its more about being associated with the group than actually being LGBTQ.

Thankyou for sharing!

[bobby_bush_eater]

It depends on the age. I wouldn't disown my 8 year old but my 25 year old yes I would. If they had lived with me for 18 years they'd know how I view certain things. I believe transgender is a mental disorder. Being gay is absolutely fine and I would not have any issues with that but transgenders are an example of this society being so well off we need to create new issues to create drama and prevent boredom

[Missgingles]

So would you seek treatment for them if they were under 18?

[bobby_bush_eater]

Probably. To be honest I wouldn't really know what to do the mother would likely have to bear the brunt of dealing with that. It sounds harsh but I it's realistic

[Missgingles]

Thats sweet that you would help them. I would do the same. at least help them when they are under 18.

Thankyou for sharing!😊

[Anonymous]

Let’s say I won’t support them? So what? will my child change their mind. Or give a ****
Not at all
At the end of the day I want to love my child.
So I guess love wins
And I will support them

If you don’t support them well have fun in a death bed you trying to pRotEcT the wOrLd and not your own creation. You got it.

[Missgingles]

You talking to me or the people commenting lol?

Anyways I understand your perspective. Thats really sweet that you'd still love and support your children.

Thankyou for commenting:)

[Opinion Owner]

Oh OMG no no!! 😅😂 I’m not talking to OP or you the original poster ~ when I wrote as “ you “ don’t support etc etc it’s more like in general for other people. 😂 sorry my English isn’t so good

[Missgingles]

No worries. All good! Thankyou for sharing🤗

[TonyMetal___86]

Chose b because i can't simply tolerate such facts!

Never understood such behavior but if he's born like that and couldn't do a thing to change him or her, i cannot kill them oe dump them, i'd still love them but will always feel uncomfortable because my mind is set to see women as women and men as men!

[Missgingles]

I understand! You'd still love them because they will always be your child but it would be a big issue.

[TonyMetal___86]

That's true and in the end they are still humans...

[Missgingles]

Exacly!

[glowingrachel]

Yes they would get my support, I do think the age matters though, I'd support it 100% if they're in high school or beyond that, any earlier than that I'd sit them down and discuss it with them because it is such a drastic life choice to make. I think people often times get gender and sex mixed up, your gender is simply what you identify as in societal constructs.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I don't know i don't wish that happen to anyone as humans we are wired to have some unique identity to leave our lives

We have built our civilization on knowing and differentiating and following a certain path.

It will be confusing for the kids , and the hell the preachings in west world nowadays having a multitude of sexes fuck the kids are confused about their own gender as people are making them to think that it's like changable and options are available.

And in the end it will mess up mentalities.

The ones who are confused about their own body it will be hard for them to focus on other things.

[Drumlin2001]

Dunno. I want them to be happy. But I suppose I don't fully understand the mind of transgender people. What is it that they feel makes them the other gender? I've never sat down with anyone and had a conversation about it.

[Missgingles]

Me neither it would be really exiting to hear. I would really like that.
Thankyou for commenting:)

[AsaKyo]

Truth is is that they probably can't explain it to you. I've asked people in that group before, and I never get any real responses. They're always either extremely hostile or don't really even know themselves. So good luck.

[Matafuko]

It's a semantic problem. You can be a feminine boy and wear dresses and stuff if you want, but you're still a boy. It's fine if you believe sex and gender are separate things but the social binary male/female, man/woman, boy/girl is based on sex - not gender - so gender fluidity should actually not affect anything in reality.

[Jenny-Marie]

You totally misunderstand and simplify the relationship between brain and body

[Missgingles]

I understand what you mean. A woman and man can pretty do the exact same stuff with outfits, charachter, dating etc the only thing limited is biology which can't be changed anyways for the most part.

Thankyou for commenting!:)

[Guy13]

No as it is fundamentally wrong. And I would be condoning an ever increasing slippery slide. they are adults and will live with their own life choice consequences...

[Missgingles]

I understand. Would you seek help for them then or just disown them?

[Guy13]

Age dependent, he has to seek his own help. I can not ultimately force beyond suggestions and opinion. If they were in my house they would understand Choice, Free Will, and Consequence from baby in crib. One makes their own bed given sound birth mind and body, therefore, capable of an informed decisions. He will be doing it on his own. I'll be around to pick-up the pieces when he hits rock bottom all mutilated without the LGBT glorification cheering him into absurdity etc... LGBT/Abortion constituency are Demonic.

[Missgingles]

I see. What if he was under 18 when he came out to you. Would you seek help for him then or no?

[Guy13]

A christian counselor for me... No one secular in school or psychology. Homeschooling too.

[Missgingles]

Yeah I'm from scandinavia and here they teach kids at kindergarden they can be whatever sex they want. It has gone way too far..
I got fired from a kindergarden job because I explained to the kids that "he" is for "boy" and "she" is for "girl".. but the transdude that came 2 hours late everyday and drinks Coffee at least half of the day in the break room got to stay:) So I would homeschool my kids too as long as society is like it is.

Thankyou for commenting!

[Guy13]

I hear you as it is a world in rebellion against Absolute Truth. Best in your endeavors.

[Missgingles]

Thankyou! Best of luck to you too!:)

[Jacobbbb]

Yeah of course they're my child that I physically made. Gonna support them and love them regardless of what happens

[Missgingles]

That's sweet! Thank you for sharing:)

[Jacobbbb]

Of course 👍

[genericname85]

i'd call them out on their bullshit and send them to a psychologist. you don't self identify as transgender. you either suffer from gender transphoria, in which case i'd listen to what the psychologist suggests or you're a gay transvestite, in which case it's your life your choice but not my business.

[shark58]

I am not sure about this kind of disorder. I know that the suffering of these people is extreme. I also know that they have a high suicide-rate. To judge people without knowing the situation they are in (which is generally not possible, can only be estimated) is not a very smart action. Guidence by a team of specialists is therefore recommendable und a decision can be made after weighting the whole picture and surrounding facts.

[Libertycityguy]

My wife and I would have a war. When your 18 and an adult then you can dress as Napoleon if you want but under a certain age no way. I would think it was someone in school swaying her that way or a mental health issue.

[Missgingles]

Sounds like a good idea for a parent. Thankyou for sharing!:)

[Missgingles]

Sorry wrote on the wrong comment. But I understand what you mean. It wouldn't be easy

[MCheetah]

I'd consider myself a failure as a parent and blame it all on me for ruining my child's life and mental health.

[Missgingles]

Okay so which option did you choose in the poll?:)

[MCheetah]

Neither of these options would apply to me and don't really count, but I voted B.

[Missgingles]

Alright so if he came out to you before 18 what would you?

[MCheetah]

If they were still in middle school/early high school, I'd get them mandatory counseling from a professional psychologist. Either way, it'd be my job to never let that kind of mental health insanity seep into my child's brain, to begin with. Which is just one reason I don't want to have kids in real life. Keeping them from becoming insane nowadays is a 24/7 job and requires all of your attention and home-schooling to pull off.

[MCheetah]

It'd be no different from them being schizophrenic or hearing voices in their head. I'd try to make them mentally healthy to the best I could.

[Missgingles]

Great! Thankyou for explaining:)

[jasco]

I would love my children regardless of what they become unless their criminals. Honestly tho I don't support/nor am I against LGTBQ. Personally tho I don't wanna see any of it. If you wanna be gay or whatever please do it somewhere else

[Missgingles]

Intressting, so if your child came out as homosexual or trans. Would you still support them?

[jasco]

I would love them as my own. If they want to be trans/gay, they may do that on their own time. I will not disown any of my kids for being what they want to be. I love them always. But I don't have to like you or your choices. I don't wanna see anything LTGBQ in my house nor you having sex with anyone in my house. But once your capable of making your own chocies with your own money, do as you wish. I will always love you

[Missgingles]

Thats sweet! Thankyou for sharing:)