Polls

So obviously most of the people who use abortion 100 times as birth control are on medicaid which means the rest of us pay for it. So for this of you who actually have jobs and brains enough to use birth control pills instead: u happy this endless expense has come to an end?

I carried my boyfriend on my back for exactly 3mins and 20 seconds. We timed it because I was so curious how long I could do it.

He stood on a chair to get on my back and the timer started when he was fully on my back lifted.

He's 5'8 and 180 pounds
I'm 5'4 and 120 pounds

I only ever do cardio lol so I was shocked I could carry him for that long.

What do you guys think?

We haven't been with anyone else, both of us are virgins and we're looking forward towards our wedding this October. I don't fit the norm of the girls that sleep around. Then again, I've socialized with people of different background and races from an early age. My parents have several friends of different cultures. We live in a mixed community full of blacks, hispanics, Asians, etc.

Here is the big issue:
My family like my boyfriend and are happy with us but his parents HATE me. Shockingly when he introduced me to them the first time, they greeted me in a cold and indifferent manner. They didn't smile at all. I didn't feel good in that house and had to make an excuse to leave after only being there for 40 minutes.

If a white person has been respectful but the hatred is coming from the black person, is this racism too? Can blacks really be racists? I'm really shocked. I've never experienced this treatment before. They really hate me for no reason. I have done nothing to them.

So, I post nudes on Reddit, taking good care that I stay as anonymous as possible, and trough that I've gotten in contact with some great people.

I've been talking to this one guy specifically on a daily basis and we really hit it off. He'll be on holiday in my country with some friends soon and wants to meet up irl.

I really, really like him, but I can't get over the fact that we got in touch trough my nudes. He says he thinks I'm beautiful without having seen my face and I just don't know how to feel about this all. We see eye to eye on many things and have similar interests as well.

Should I get over myself and meet up?

I know some of y'all don't want kids but let's just say you did and you had a boy would you get him circumcised?

Personally I think it's child abuse and mutilation so I didn't do that to my boys. But I'm just curious what other people would do and why?

Rating out of 5 for looks?

Things were going well with this guy, until a particular day. It was a formal work event (we work at a school), and we'd agreed to attend it together and especially be with this one student whose parents usually don't show up to events. We'd talked about taking the family photo together and being there for the kid. But, when the day came, a hundred emotions and thoughts flooded over me, including this being my last day with the kids, and I didn't go to him. He'd also texted me asking where I was, and I didn't notice till later. After all the speeches, I was crying and went to the ladies room to clean up before seeing him. But when I got back, he was gone. I found him at his work desk, working. We exchanged very few words. Eventually, he went home. The other day, I dug deep into why I'd acted that way, and I figured out it links back to my childhood- my dad left. On grad day, I had this image in my head of my crush, the kid and I taking pictures together. But the kid's trashy dad showed up unexpectedly. I think this was one reason I avoided my crush- our plans to take the family photo together was destroyed. A few days ago, before I started reflecting on all this, I tried to ask him out but he said he just started seeing someone. At first I confessed my feelings via text and then tried to say goodbye, but he asked to stay friends. I said no. Later I changed my mind and apologized for being dramatic, because he's work partners with one of my mentors since high school, and I don't want my issues to affect their partnership. He said we were cool. Two nights ago, I watched a movie he would also like, so I texted him about it as an attempt to smooth things out as friends, since we used to talk about movies. He isn't replying. I don't know if I should give him space or talk to him about graduation day. All I know is we can't move forward in any direction if he's still upset. If we were to never see each other again, this wouldn't be so bad but we probably will.

Anyone who’s lived in the country know these are your only options.

I don't know myself but I'm limiting myself seeing the things I like that taste good has like coke hills tall of coc-sugar. I mean sugar. Like this soda I got here, coca-cola. 55g of sugar... with some more= 110% of sugar. That's way more than a cocaine hill, it's like scar face amount of sugar. (i imagine) sooo just wondering... because it's 12:40.

My boyfriend is ALWAYS GROUND! But he gets ungrouned after a day or so... I don't know plant misconceptions like I dont trust him into our realationship, but I think he might just want a break from me or his phone, which is fine... Just dont know what to say to him... Or do we think his mom is just easy going...