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27F, I’ve officially come to terms with the fact I’ll end up alone. I’ve been on and off the apps for years, I really don’t think I’m that unattractive but the dating apps have indicated otherwise. I get a good bit of matches and guys reach out, it always either dies out or it isn’t reciprocated from the guy or I. I’ve tried almost every app, paid and free. I have one app installed, there was one time last year where I deleted the app for 6 months. Currently, I swipe on profiles maybe every other week or reply to messages 2-3 times per week. I don’t have friends so the apps are my only avenue considering I’m a homebody. I do know they work for some though, people have said I’m cute/attractive etc but guys never approach me in person. I used to purposely hold back and try to play hard to get, now I’m at the point where I have to force myself to open the app and remember to reply to this guy and so forth. I don’t want kids, id be down to get married but really worry about the reality that id have to be sexual knowing guys urges and so. I am not sexual, I haven’t had sex or masturbated in years. Maybe the right guy will change that?
Also, certain things about guys kinda turn me off, almost every guy I’ve known including my dad who I’m close with has dickish/macho tendencies and I don’t have patience for it lol.

TL;DR: does it sound like my dry spell/bad luck with dating apps stem from lack of interest? Or am I bitter?

The following comments are copied from articles I recently read.

Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis

Ron DeSantis fought and won two major battles recently: protecting students in third grade and younger from the Dems’ cherished “choose your gender” narrative, and poking woke Disney in its progressive eye. No doubt Walt would approve. His legislative victories demonstrate is that DeSantis is willing to fight hard against formidable opposition on high-profile issues, including cultural issues.

Governor DeSantis has continuously put the liberty, interests, and wellbeing of Floridians first. He took a stand for sanity in the schools, by outlawing gender “fluidity” indoctrination of children in kindergarten through third grade. And, he refused to allow mask mandates. Does he think he’s smarter than the CDC? Let’s hope so!

Kentucky Senator Rand Paul: Rand Paul had Libertarian ideas I approve of. However, he supported liberal Mitt Romney during his father’s (Ron Paul) presidential campaign. And, he stabbed Trump in the back on January 6th by publicly stating members of Congress couldn’t overturn an election.

Former Vice President Mike Pence: Pence infamously went on to certify the theft of our election instead. And let’s not forget that prior to this act of betrayal, Pence assembled the Coronavirus Task Force that brought us the deadly duo of FauxChi and Birx.

Former President Donald Trump

Trump forgot the two words he’d made so famous: “You’re fired!” That’s what he needed to tell Dr. Fraudster, Madame La Scarf, and a few other strategically-placed traitors bent on destroying America, as it became clear the COVID“cure” was far worse than the disease.

Early on, Trump was poised to place the valiant Robert F. Kennedy Jr. at the helm of a commission on vaccine safety. ! But sadly, Bobby’s appointment was quickly derailed as Big Pharma rushed in and Trump listened to his advisors.

Whenever you sign up for a new website/app that requires a username, how long does it take you to come up with one that isn't already taken?

Somehow, almost every username I come up with is "already taken", so it always takes me a while to come up with a username.

I work at a gym as a junior fitness advisor. My boss is a real male chauvinist pig and makes all his female employees (myself included) have a strict dress code.

He demands that all female employees must wear either a thong or a gstring as underwear and we must wear skin tight leggings and a sports bra.

He says this is to increase the gym's sexual attractiveness which will help bring in more male clients to the gym.

If we disobey the dress code in anyway he says he would fire us on the spot. He's even joked in staff meetings before the female staff should be prostituting ourselves to the male clients after their workouts.

The picture is very similar to our dress code.

I'm curious to know what both genders think about this.

If you were out and you saw a guy with a wife/girlfriend who was dressed like this would you get jealous and want her to be yours instead?

I lovee rain. There's no other better feeling than laying down on my back on the small roof top terrace of my house and feel the rain drops falling on my skin. feels really nice in my opinion. wbu

I’m looking at men profiles here in my area. But they look like predators, drug addicts, or like they haven’t bathed in months. Till I extended my search and saw men in different countries looking well put together and almost looked like movie stars or models.
Is it just me noticing this or has anyone else?

So I stopped by a business where I know the franchise owner. I've had a feeling for a while that he wanted to open his own business so I brought up that I am a manager elsewhere and there's room where we are.

Now for whatever reason when I mentioned there was room I slipped and said there's room underneath us (where I work it is as multi story building).

He had the funniest reaction going oohhh underneath you and a few other things. It's easier to see than describe.

this is all hypothetical, of course. We aren’t allowed to close but I think we should if we cannot keep the children cool.

Cus trains are cool

Pretty much as a guide on what fields to look into more. I've been trying to plan my life as detailed as possible these past few years but my career/work life is the only area I'm uncertain of. As far as I remember, I was always looking forwards to becoming an engineer and maybe studying physics on the side but most of the people I know are encouraging me to look more into Nursing or Teaching. Both are due to the ability to directly help people and a lot of the people close to me work in these fields. however, choosing a career without looking into it and its future prospects seems like a bad idea to say the least.

... what do you think about each field? why would you pick it?

I'm working with my client and her 5 year old brother comes in unsupervised talking, saying look at me, bringing in all his toys, then ask me for a pen then looks in my bag while I'm in the middle of care. I told him not to look in my bag then proceeded with ignoring him by acting super busy until he went away several times until he was gone for good🤣. I know there's a camera in the room. And the mom had an attitude when I was leaving.

I learned the hard way. I'll never get my $1,300 back. He scammed me and used it for his dates and other things, cheating and lying the whole time. So much for being a giving person, thinking he needed it and would pay it back. He's my blocked ex boyfriend now.

I've never asked anyone for money. Generally speaking is it bad if a man ask his girlfriend for money? I'm not talking about $10 or $50 but $500 and above.

I don't give anyone my money anymore.

😭😂