Guys, is it a big issue if I don't have any real hobbies? Please read?

[Anonymous]

When it comes to dating, I'm really worried that this is the reason why I am so unlucky in love, because I'm not very active person nor interesting enough for the guys.

I feel like after work and duties and all that needs to be done, you don't really have enough free time for hobbies and even if you do, if you are a homebody like me then you're happy just to be in a nice cozy calm place, home.

What I like to do:
- Play videogames from time to time (mostly horror games, RPG when I was younger)
- I like watching movies, especially old good movies and horror flicks
- I love good music, I prefer old music (80s, new-wave and similar).
- I like to spend time with my very few closest friends but it's so much harder now that we are all adulting lol
- I like to shop fashion and little things but I am still considerate while I do so
- Sometimes I like to bake (sometimes because not always it is eatable)
- I like eating out but as I said, I do it only when I can really afford it
- I do like animals a lot, care after them
- I also like cars, no pro but I know a bit about them, I like driving and I can myself traveling somewhere far, treat myself and my closest ones

This is most of the stuff I do after I come home from work and once are all the household duties done.

I'm kind of a nerd but I never really wanted to date a nerd. Is that normal?

Are hobbies/interests like these strange or not good enough?

It's fine, I'd prefer a more calm girlfriend

Not for me, I'd prefer a more active girlfriend

[Guy13]

You’re like the perfect woman…. It would be awesome to eat what’s baked, watch a movie/beer at pub, and see you light-up with a shopping 🛍 thing.
YOU just have to find the right sort of conservative man. Do NOT apologize for being a traditional woman. Do not let the guy link “homebody” to “fat” to “lazy”. Stay in shape…

[Asker]

I am in shape, curvier but healthy BMI. I just can't imagine myself to travel everywhere all the time, post every little thing on social medias or be just so social (parties, drinking etc.).

I do like to go out but the perfect setting for me is a cozy place with my loved one and maybe close friends or his friends, just chilling and laughing, nothing extra. And just from time to time.

[Guy13]

Paddle boating…illegal feeding ducks hardened hot dog buns…illegal spiked homemade lemon ade that you made and guy Dr. Vodka (ed) 👮‍♀️-Paddling while impaired🙃🙃.
Docking and rocking in chairs over lake in screened porch area afterwards…you and your guy❓❓

[Anonymous]

That's not the problem. It's more likely you aren't understanding the difference between the standards men have for relationships Vs sex. I think most women have problems in dating because they are going for the same top percentage of men that most women are going for, rather than the slightly more average, more down to earth guy.

[TheUniqueOne96]

No, it seems fine TBH.

My main hobby is going to the gym lol and then I come home and spend a lot of time alone in my room, I just like being alone.

[HighValue]

Seems okay to me. I think on work days people really shouldn't be expected to go out and do much anyways. Maybe more on a day off. I think having board game time with friends would be cool as a hobby.

[Avicenna]

That's not a problem- no one is compatible with everyone anyway. There are guys out there with no hobbies anyway.

[driven159]

the only thing I would do is get you into fishing them we could spend a lot of time together in the outdoors and I am kind of a nerd in a mountain mans body

[FilmGuy93]

The car thing is nice, but mostly you don't sound very interesting to me.

[Likes2drive]

It’s fine, we can enjoy mine together and relax at times and do what you do to unwind, it’s called compromising

[Kereology]

Yay, a girl who's just as boring as me!

[WhyMe247]

You sound perfect to me!

[Jamie05rhs]

You're fine.