Polls

The last several times I’ve met a guy, he always asks me these questions. And very early too. It’s always been either on the first date or while chatting to get to know each other before meeting.

I feel like these questions are intrusive and a bit inappropriate, but because everyone seems to do it, that makes me wonder if this is just a normal thing.

Also, what do you think the reason is that a guy would ask a woman these things?

My coworker and i are both going for the same internal position at my company, and we're both in HR so we can see each others applications from inside the system. We both applied two weeks ago and we're both definitely moving on to final round interviews, but my coworker has been going in and tweaking her resume, as if she's remembering things she forgot to add. Since we're both guaranteed to move onto final round - is it unfair?

I've truly wronged someone (bad enough to nearly destroy her reputation) and struggle with apologizing since early childhood. I've always struggled with just saying ''I'm sorry''.

I have a personal journal where I freely express myself and it's more detailed (the way I imagine if I were talking) than any speech I've ever delivered. My whole apology to her is on my journal. That's what I imagine saying but I have issues expressing a heartfelt apology.

If someone really wronged you and is remorseful, would you prefer it in person or written?

I'm not sure I would like teenage me, tbh.

Wow that is crazy. I can imagine what kind of money Ariana Grande can make on this app.

Is it a good idea to live with a partner before deciding to get married, why or why not?

I talk about this with my boyfriend pretty often, and my parents chime in every once in a while. My parents are older in their 60s, they were raised to not live with their partners before marriage, also cohabitation wasn't very common and unconventional... So my parents definitely find it odd that so many unmarried couples are living together nowadays.

However, I bring up how so many couples nowadays find it better because they get a "sneak peek" of what living with their partner is like, so they can see if they are compatible regarding living together, instead of it being a shock when they first move in after marriage. Seems logical.

Anyways, I wondered if you think it is a good idea to live with a partner before getting married, why? Or if you think it's better to live with a partner (for the first time) after marriage, why?

i mean this in the sense that a guy did something inconsiderate, and knows he messed up.

Do you think he will reach out in attempt to fix things and just give it time, or he will likely just forget about it, brush it under the rug, and move on to the next girl?

My boyfriend lives with mom and his sister shares room with boyfriend in moms home. I never met his family and he talks to me of his parents a lot but never asks to meet them. So it’s weird. I spend holidays alone while my entire family arrive holidays next to a partner. I don't know what is point date for years and years I don’t get what is the reason. I’m not looking for a friend or buddy go out with. He doesn’t want to move out. So he’ll be forever with mom and sisters boyfriend. He’s like 30 but what would you girls do? I see all girls live with guy and start family. And it’s easy to say find new guy but it’s not easy and hard be in love again. I don’t care for any guy. But I do want a future and partner not marry but share life togeher with a guy & not live alone.

Are they good at detecting another psychopath or sociopath? Their own kind

Example:
Ben is a high-functioning psychopath and successful CEO. He has scammed others and used women.
He meets another woman but this one is different. She's also a high functioning-psychopath, as cold and twisted as him. Would he be able to recognize his own kind? And her?