Opinions on Fifty Shades of Grey, Fifty Shades Darker and Fifty Shades Freed?

[Anonymous]

They were all trash they were promoting violence against women and romanticising toxic relationships

Trash or not it’s only fiction it’s fine if people can tell the difference between fiction and real life whether they like it or not

I wish I can be like Ana she’s so lucky to have a boyfriend like Grey their relationship was extremely romantic

I was forced to watch these because of my partner

Neutral I’m also curious to check the poll results (I understand)

Updates

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I didn’t dare watch them because of the negativity they had received from people saying it’s promoting toxic relationships. I had been in a toxic relationship so I didn’t dare watch all of them.

[Losalt]

I honestly haven't seen or read any of those.
However I know that they're not popular in the BDSM community and represents values at odds with theirs.

[Asker]

I think it’s best not to because of so much negativity.

[Losalt]

Update.
Honestly, you shouldn't be afraid of watching them.
But watch it with someone you trust and who can give you emotional support if needed.
There's a lot of things at odds with our values that may still be a turn on.

[Asker]

I wouldn’t want to watch it because I didn’t want to be reminded of what my ex did to me.

[Asker]

I don’t think I can last 30 mins if I’m watching these. I’m someone who gets very afraid of shows like these.

[Losalt]

Hum, please do pm me later.

[Losalt]

@Asker
May I ask what your ex did?
Perhaps I can help you work through that?

[ArtemisSilver]

I still haven't gotten around to watching/reading them. I'd rather have a relationship that has some semblance of normalcy