Polls

The contemporary alphabetic order is archaic which basically means patriarchal. Is this the right time to rearrange the alphabets for a better social equality and justice? This new order will be engraved in the minds of children early in the schools so that we can raise nice men and each individual of the society will be accepted for who they/them are?

Let's say your parents are sadistic narcissists. Growing up, they'd physically and emotionally abuse you. They constantly put you down, encourage you to commit self harm, discourage and torment your own children, and do whatever they can to manipulate you into having the lowest self esteem. They also tell you how awesome your siblings are and how you're worthless and have no good deed to the family name.

But let's also say your parents' estate is worth millions. You know cutting them out of your life results in you being disinherited.

Would you do it?

For what it's worth, it's a true story, so I'm going anon.

Most people are average. Some are above average, some are below average, but most are average. If everyone was a 9/10 based on their appearance, then 9/10 would, by definition, be average.

I've dated many women who were quite average based on their appearance. Some of them were outstanding people in other ways. Many of them were intelligent, most of them were kind and nurturing, and some of them were very satisfying when the relationship got to the point of having sex. I never thought that their average appearance was a deficit for them, and I felt strongly attracted to them.

However, some people seem to resent being called "average" and they refuse to date anyone who looks "average." How do you feel about dating someone who looks average?

6ft 5.

Just an educated guess, based on your current confidence, appearance, etc

Obviously, I don't think most guys would strike out all 20 times, and I don't think they would be successful all 20 times

I'm in my mid 20s and the idea of spending the rest of my life married scares me.

I didn't believe this much until I saw videos of people asking people that you'd expect to be happy single like prostitutes, onlyfan people, players, escorts etc. They asked a specific question, they asked do you plan on being single your whole life? and they all said no which I think means that all human brains are wired to crave company no matter their situation, now these people might struggle finding valid partner later on but that's besides the point of my question because personally I'm not saying I'm happy being single, I'm just at peace with it, which is completely different, as a single person happiness can be way more limited than a relationship and it led me to this question True or False? 🤔

First, I’d to explain my personal beliefs about God. I believe that there was once spirit (which is basically God/heaven) but there was no one to experience this heaven, so he split into both spirit and the observer (which is us) as newer souls, we need to explore life on the physical and learn lessons before ascending, and eventually be In heaven.

We are particles of God trying to return to spirit to experience heaven.

Most people who harm others are simply lost souls trying to return back home. (More explained on this later)

I also want to explain that ego can be thought of as self consciousness. Ego is not bad though. It’s simply a state of awareness.

I believe that ego can drive people to want to be in a powerful business position, this means that black people have the least ego and therefore just want to experience God. This means that in terms in jobs, they often want what’s just enough to make them happy. A person without ego would only do harm to other people if his perception of God is skewed. They know they were created by God, but lack of knowledge (like knowing we are all particles of God) can lead to confusion. For example, thinking that you are God yourself (which is true, but not in that way), thinking that other people might not exist, or thinking that the best way to find heaven is on earth. This kind of confusion can (not necessarily will) lead to devil worship. If these people are grounded though and know who other people are, it often leads to very nice and or strong people who don’t do things for themselves.

Asian people, particularly from oriental regions, have balanced the ego and the spiritual. This means that there are still motivated by a higher power, but still have some sense of self importance. Some people have applied this balance to both business and spirituality. Of course, a perception of spirituality can be skewed (as mentioned above) which can cause harm.

Schopenhauer said this about music, which i think applies to modern men:

in general, opera, through its three hour duration and at the same time putting our patience to the test through the snails pace of what is usually a very trite action, is in itself intrinsically and essentially boring; which failing fan br overcome only by the excessive excellence of an individual achievement: that us why in this genre only the masterpieces are enjoyable and everything mediocre is unendurable."