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I feel like the only way to win as a man is to be extremely prosperous and successful financially and be well known. There is nothing else unless you look like a Greek god. Because to be honest no one cares about what men think or their existence unless they are top 0.1%.

It is something I’ve always thought and way I just work so hard.

I come from a top family, you are definitely really rated by people. Some people get jealous. But you definitely know every girl dreams of men that are just unattainable and so far from reality as a normal guy in 2026 is just not enough.

As men we’re born we have to build ourselves from the ground up.

Insane expectations put on us, because to appeal to women you have to be the ultra masculine acecho type.
Rich, muscly, tall, big d1ck and good in 🛏️, tough. That’s what all women want, my girlfriend too which shows they don’t really like the man for him. You got to be perfect.

Like if a man is struggling they won’t pick that guy, just let him die and evolve out. You have to be a winner, as to women it’s only like the top 5% of men make it into her sight.

I enjoy being a man but it’s so difficult. Because it’s a game no matter what level you are at you cannot win at. The competition is unreal and social media makes it unplayable as I can just not build this insane as I cannot build those insane definition physiques. I struggled to get a pretty girlfriend I can’t lie. Men are now just viewed as like worthless.

I looked down on my left foot and found a small cut. there's a tiny bit of blood there. no idea where it came from lol...

i treat it already don't worry.

I have not really gotten off the ground running on just about everything in life. It is really hurting my self-esteem and has left me feeling ignored, irrelevant, bored, and feeling like I am losing my ever fucking mind.

I will provide a few examples:

One, I have been trying to sell my independent web services. I am a talented web developer. I acknowledge AI is making it easier to create web apps and websites, but not everyone has fully adopted it yet for these purposes. I had a few clients and created websites for them last year. I received mostly positive feedback, and I offered my services for a steal. I was supposed to work on one more website for another small business, and it has been over 6 months and I haven't heard a thing from them. That is now $1,500 I will not be getting. They are a landscaping supply company, so this time of year would be ideal. Meanwhile, I launched a website trying to gain clients. No calls, no web form submissions, nothing. I advertise, sometimes cold call, reach out to other recruiters and company owners... nothing. One of my clients from last year that I was told needed updates, they have yet to provide me with anything. Potential and existing clients are pulling back.

Then, I am spending a lot of my time now trying to advocate and raise awareness about our crumbling public safety infrastructure in my state, as it has become very problematic. I have spoken with news organizations, and they now either lie saying they will "get to it" or I am ignored and sidelined.

I feel like I am not taken seriously now, and that I have become irrelevant.

My girlfriend is almost 28 and has been in 3 relationships where she 👉👌

She has also been with another three guys she was exclusive with, and did get to third base but not to 👉👌

How bad is that? This is a girl I feel could be wife, aside from this she ticks almost all boxes. I will sign a prenup and protect myself. She really wants to get married and k feel pressured because of her age because of her body clock ☹️

I am same age and this is my first proper relationship.

Think about what he's done in the past and what he's doing now before you answer the question.

Israel is getting pounded by Iran , defense shield is failing. US declare war over and leaves. Iran continues to blast Israel. Israel uses Nuke to try to stop Iran's missiles and drones. How does the world react?

Rick Pitino , Bill Self, Tom Izzo, John Calipari, Scott Drew

Scott Drew really only had 2 really good teams , Calopari relies on Good Freshman too much, Tom Izzo had two really good teams at start and won once. Bill Self is overrated and has health issues, Rick Pitino is getting old and gets in trouble a lot.

Calipari has always cheated and only won one Title. Izzo never cheats but will always be second fiddle to Michigan , Rick Pitino had others cheat and got in Trouble at Louisville and Hawaii. Bill Self has had teams that should have won and failed and he was investigated for cheating. Scott Drew turned down job at Kentucky before Portal/NIL disaster was created. Now he can't get players to come to Baylor because there is no money at Baylor. I bet now he would have taken job at Kentucky.

One and done players suit Calipari , Pitino, and Self more. Drew and Izzo are more traditional coached that did better with 4 year building.

I will rate who I think has best chance of winning again and the ones that won't.

Best chance to win

1) Bill Self has best chance if heath holds out , even though he has blown it with really good teams and was favored

2) Pitino , slight chance , He is in 70's now and I expect he will be out before 80's

3) Calipari slight chance. He relies on Freshman too much, but if he stops freshman and goes after JR and SR players maybe

4) Tom Izzo is getting old , and more traditional , I don;t see him ever winning it again at Mich St

5) Drew I don;t think can win another at Baylor