Questions

2 mo

How long should you date before proposing as independent adults?

I’m talking about functional adults with jobs and independence, not highly school sweethearts that can date for years before finishing school, or having a job

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Coworker said I look like a ‘young grandma’—is that really a compliment?

Guy at work while I was washing my hands in an open area, works in wardrobe, came up to wm from the side. Put his hand on my shoulder and came close to me and said “you be walking around here looking like a young grandma”...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Would you say that prison employees live a relative prison life?

They also spend most of their day in prison, only able to see the sky.

WellBye

Xper 7 Age: 26

2 mo

Have people lost their minds these days?

I think a lot of unhinged people have lost it. A lot more crazy things happening in this world than 10 years ago. Justice system is still fucked up because people have more compassion for a rapist who raped a young girl...

mrshooiser

Xper 6 Age: 32

2 mo

I’m 18 and in love with a man 10 years older—are my parents right to object?

I'm an 18 year old girl. But I've been in love with a guy older then me since I was around 14. He is 10 years older then me. My mother seems to think that even though I'm 18, I'm to young to be with who I want to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

2 mo

Is my neighbour’s grand romantic gesture sweet or just creepy stalking?

I moved into my new apartment 3 months ago and I started using the communal gym. There was two guys also in there and one kept giving me the eye. I found it really awkward and uncomfortable so I said "can I help you...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

2 mo

Has any of you used Ozempic or Mounjaro?

Wegovy, Ozempic, Mounjaro, Zepbound or any other GLP-1 drugs? I heard they make one have constipation

Malwi93

Explorer Age: 32

Relationships

2 mo

Am I pathologic for needing a partner?

I’m a "force multiplier" who knows for a fact I function better with a "partner in crime" than alone. To me, life is a team sport; I’m more productive and comfortable fighting the world as a duo. Why is this pathologized...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

Are you actually self aware, or just familiar with the story you tell about yourself?

1. What do different people consistently notice about you that you tend to explain away or reinterpret? 2. When feedback conflicts with your self image, do you examine the pattern or protect your intention? 3. Do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

Were 80s actresses more rebellious than actresses now?

in terms of breaking rules of "femininity" like, long hair is feminine, skinny is feminine etc etc. I know beauty standards shift practically every decade but I often ponder as to how vintage girls on silver screens had...

fonduegirl

Guru Age: 25

2 mo

If nothing about your life changes, are you willing to admit this is exactly the life you’re choosing?

1. Where are you pretending to wait, when you’re actually avoiding a decision? 2. What are you still blaming, even though you have control over it? 3. If you’re honest, what have you already accepted but refuse to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

If your life ended today, what truth would you no longer be able to hide from?

1. What did you know was right, but kept choosing against? 2. Where did you stay silent when it actually mattered? 3. What did you keep postponing, assuming you had time? and if you’re honest, was it lack of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

How can I reach out to a long-distance crush I barely know without being weird?

So quick thing: There's a guy I've met when I was super young. We were both 13. Moving fast forward, we were never friends at all but we got along like classmates, however he's in the US and im living around MENA region,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

What does LGBT rights suppose to mean?

I thought in pretty much every western countries they do have the same type of rights as people who aren’t LGBT.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

2 mo

How can I talk to my daughter about choosing an abortion compassionately?

She is not ready to be a mom and I don’t want the child to suffer.

TheLovelyWoman

Xper 6 Age: 42

2 mo

What is something which is not illegal but should be?

Unserious answers only! Skin coloured leggings or nicely fit pants with shirt or top length above butt should be illegal. It freaks out everyone and is an all time fashion crime!

Apulu_backagain

Xper 7 Age: 17

Guy's Behavior

2 mo

Why is my male best friend suddenly acting like a jealous boyfriend?

no one seems to able to answer this for me, but this behavior was WAAYYYY out the left field. Context: Me, a 34 y/o woman, and my best make friend, a 45 year old male have been best friends for many years, and he even...

Anonymous

(30-35)