If a guy wants to date me just because of my race, is that a red flag?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

No. How do you think we as men decide what women we want to try to date? We base it off of looks. So if you had an ugly face in his eyes he wouldn’t have chosen you. Now after he’s gotten passed the looks now it comes down to personality. If you have a bad personality your physical features aren’t going to matter anymore.

[BCRanger10]

Kind of? Maybe? He should want to date you because he's interested in you, wants to know more about you, and determine whether he wants to pursue a long-term relationship with you. If it is just because of your race... eh, I don't know, something doesn't seem quite right about that to me.

[queenofcardio]

Solely because of your race? What an odd thing for him to say. Such a turn off

[jahaims]

It's a red flag that you don't know the very obvious answer

[browsingthroughthe]

Nah I'm white and I like chicks paler than me 🤍

[molonski2]

No , depends on your race to some extent.

[Alex-Snow]

It is kind of weird but maybe it is not a red flag

[Anonymous]

What race do u both belong to?

[Asker]

He’s Hispanic and I’m black with white ancestry

[Opinion Owner]

Why does he want to date u

[Asker]

He said because he never been with a black person that’s why

[Opinion Owner]

He wants a short term relationship i suppose? But his long term type for a wife must be white or Hispanic?

[Asker]

He made it seem like he wanted something serious

[Opinion Owner]

Made it seem? Looool

[Asker]

Yes because I don’t know his true intentions

[zagor]

Yes that would be weird.

[dudeinohio]

Absolutely

[Staximus]

Pretty much

[Iron_Man]

No…/