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So as a guy I've had my fair share of moments through text or moments face to face with girls where a girl has thrown one of the statements we as guys know all to well that have hidden meaning we don't understand what...

What’s been most interesting for me is the time since publishing an article about compatibility in December 2011.  Shortly before submitting it, I started to feel like I wasn’t saying anything significant or different,...

Since the dawn of time, men have made the fatal mistake of taking the words of women at face value. I can’t blame our kind, as we are logical beings who say what we mean and mean what we say . But women… women are...

I am referring to women who are universally attractive. It is common for an attractive woman to be committed to a bad boy, alpha dog, or player. Fortunately, there are attractive women who are sick of these types of guys...

Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything. - George Bernard Shaw Changing oneself is often one of the hardest thing that we as people can undertake, but there...

If the friend you like doesn't have a BF/GF, ask them out. If they say yes, congratulations (make sure they know it is a date and not just friends hanging out!), if they say no, lose contact with them. If the friend you...

Not just on here, but in real life, I read/hear people say real sh*t like: - My last bf cheated on me, so all men are dogs! - Black women are always angry, so I'm not dating one! - Black men are all super horny, and...

So, I’ve spoken about flirting, about love, about keeping a conversation going…. Yes, I’ve checked those off, but here is one that bugs me. Players! Now, sure, I know how it’s done. Have I used it once or twice? Sure. On...

Everybody has a type, and the vast majority of us will end up dating several if not multiple people to varying degrees before meeting the person that we'd potentially spend the rest of our lives with. As times continue to...

So, Christmas is right around the corner. Less than a week, in fact! That means gifts beneath the tree, turkey on the table, and (my favorite), pumkin pie! It also means stress for many families. Why? Well, for starters,...

As a nerd, I'm no stranger to rejection. Not only have I been on the receiving end of it, but in recent years I've also dished plenty of it out. When I was young, there was such a negative stigma associated with being a...

Plenty of guys (particularly on this website) claim to be nice guys and that being nice is why they are unsuccessful in dating. They also notice that players are successful with girls and often don't treat them well....

1. Take Initiatives My first dating advice is the most important in my view. It's doesn't mean you have to have total control of everything, it means you lead and take initiatives. You go first and lead, maybe even...

Criticism, stereotypes, skewed ideals and perfectionism:  or how to be happy with your appearance in a society where everyone hates you for being you I asked a question, out of mere curiousity, which eventually...

I can't tell you how many times I've seen women say "Seems like all men just want sex right away. Aren't there any good men anymore?". Women need to stop looking at this as though it is a negative, and see it for what it...

You may call me a bad parent for saying this but I'm just going to put it out there... I don't care if my kids are good at sports, graduate tops in their class, become a doctor, or even make a lot of money some day!...

I have heard a lot of talk about people with Aspergers on this website and i would like to adress the following things you should never say to someone with Aspergers. 1. Never ever talk in a low tone voice like you would...

Sometimes the best way to handle things is just to let go. I've found that I am the person everyone goes to when they need someone to talk to. I've often asked myself why that is, why do they come to me and not other...

Less Objectifying = Lower Standards? Every time a good picture of a model comes up, or when one of my friends pulls out a picture of a hot girl on his phone, girls often make comments like, "That picture is so fake!"...

I say, YES! Tuition fees are an economic necessity.  Some governments could lessen defence spending to compensate (and we all know this won't happen soon...) but then high fees are needed to balance out costs. However,...