I mean maybe it's because I was raised by women but when I say most of these things I'm being 100% literal. But my opinion doesn't matter so take it with a grain of salt lol
I guess i understand how girls feel about, "what she really means" mytakes. 1. i don't look at hot girls anymore than average ones, or even a random leaf on the ground. 2. or i'm insecure about my ability in bed 3. your just not trying hard enough. He'll fold. Chocolate, and blackmailing goes a long way. 4. i thought this one was kinda obvious, for guys and girls 5. There are any number of reasons he might not want to be in a relationship, he just doesn't want to tell you why.
Except the first point all these points apply exactly to women as well. Women overthink things when they could just look at their own playbook to see what a guy probably means...
These are generalizations that don't apply to every guy. And you can't get mad at guys for looking at other girls it's human nature. There is a big difference between looking at someone and being in love with. And women do the exact same thing. I know my ex looked at other guys when we were together and I never cared.
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suffocating me= give me some ducking space i need some me time. Just not in a good position right now for a relationship." Translation.. am not ready to fucking date. However if a guy says this after having sex with you he's lying.. When i went through my forced break up a year ago i wanted to date around and told every girl this from day 1
These could be equally true for guys and girls. . .
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I think in general these excuses should stop guys and girls have both said them. I personally have had all these throw at me in past relationships and it can hurt someone emotional. If you don't have feelings for a person tell them on the first date don't prolong it because that just makes it worse.
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I will not meet the girl that I used to like again, if this hurts your feelings = I'm going to meet her and lie to you about this, this way I won't have to handle your bad mood for a week
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I mean maybe it's because I was raised by women but when I say most of these things I'm being 100% literal. But my opinion doesn't matter so take it with a grain of salt lol
I guess i understand how girls feel about, "what she really means" mytakes.
1. i don't look at hot girls anymore than average ones, or even a random leaf on the ground.
2. or i'm insecure about my ability in bed
3. your just not trying hard enough. He'll fold. Chocolate, and blackmailing goes a long way.
4. i thought this one was kinda obvious, for guys and girls
5. There are any number of reasons he might not want to be in a relationship, he just doesn't want to tell you why.
Soooo basically, if you're a girl, ask yourself what you mean when you say these things to a guy and there's your answer.
Except the first point all these points apply exactly to women as well. Women overthink things when they could just look at their own playbook to see what a guy probably means...
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These are generalizations that don't apply to every guy. And you can't get mad at guys for looking at other girls it's human nature. There is a big difference between looking at someone and being in love with. And women do the exact same thing. I know my ex looked at other guys when we were together and I never cared.
suffocating me= give me some ducking space i need some me time. Just not in a good position right now for a relationship."
Translation.. am not ready to fucking date. However if a guy says this after having sex with you he's lying.. When i went through my forced break up a year ago i wanted to date around and told every girl this from day 1
I've only ever heard #2 and #4
I've literally never heard the rest said EVER by a man. Only women
The translation for 4 is wrong too. It means back the hell up and give me space for whatever reason
If I say that "I really don't care that much about sex", that is because I really don't. Try generalising less, thank you.
These could be equally true for guys and girls. . .
I think in general these excuses should stop guys and girls have both said them. I personally have had all these throw at me in past relationships and it can hurt someone emotional. If you don't have feelings for a person tell them on the first date don't prolong it because that just makes it worse.
I will not meet the girl that I used to like again, if this hurts your feelings = I'm going to meet her and lie to you about this, this way I won't have to handle your bad mood for a week
is that what you women really think if you really believe what you just wrote in this MyTake then you really have a serious problem
I was skeptical but i won't lie they ALL apply to me lmao. esp 1, 4 and 5.
I feel like
We lie
Because you girls dont want the truth
And most of these things are wrong anyway
nah thats not how i take this. when i say these things they are literal. i dont care about sex because I've had a lot. i look but i dont touch.
Hahahaha nice take girl!! I am find admit... I have played the "I'm just not in a good position right now for a relationship." Card :-D
No. I actually say what's on my mind and I'm straightforward about it.
Nice take... Enjoyed reading it...
So translate this one for me...
'Girl I really like you and its for more than just your body'
"i trust you"
IE "you betcha yo ass that if i find out you're a cheater im gonna kick you outta my life. been there, done that"