When I was a kid I was more outgoing at first except for when it came to the opposite sex I was attracted to. But as time went on, by the time I entered my teens I wasn't anymore.
I wrote a comment on that to martsa , a girl up the comments, and explained my point to her. I´m sorry if I messed it up a bit but maybe you can read my afterword :)
I know how hard it is while not being able to escape from your current environment. It only worked for me starting all over where nobody knew me, I also didn´t know how to start in my then environment, because the image was long set. But anyways, believe me, it´s never too late to be nice, more talkative and positive. I also thought people would reduce me on what I did before. But there are so many people around you every day, so people won´t focus on you so much, so you can change and they will accept it and like it. We are all personally more critical with ourselves than other people are. I wish you the best! Hope you´ll get where you want to :)
i already know this, just came here from a notification... nevermind, good take
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Great advice though I had no firends and I did go in a trip (5-6 days) with people who I didn't know but I interacted with them very little and I am still that awkward guy and to be honest with you I need morethen a week to get rid of it.
It´s so great to hear that you at least tried tho! Of course it needs more than a week. After my week, the exchange year followed where I´ve been less afraid of, but still. I practiced my skills all year long, so don´t worry if it doesn´t work out for you that quickly :) good luck!
Thanks for support little brat I suppose I can't compare to you because we are different. I wish myself best too hope I manage to make it a shift this year
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Hope your life keep smiling at you :)
When I was a kid I was more outgoing at first except for when it came to the opposite sex I was attracted to. But as time went on, by the time I entered my teens I wasn't anymore.
I doubt you were ever introverted or actually anxious around other people. You were just, a bit shy.
I wrote a comment on that to martsa , a girl up the comments, and explained my point to her. I´m sorry if I messed it up a bit but maybe you can read my afterword :)
I will check it out. Thanks for pointing it out.
I don't know how to change people's opinions about me. I have a well known image
I know how hard it is while not being able to escape from your current environment. It only worked for me starting all over where nobody knew me, I also didn´t know how to start in my then environment, because the image was long set. But anyways, believe me, it´s never too late to be nice, more talkative and positive. I also thought people would reduce me on what I did before. But there are so many people around you every day, so people won´t focus on you so much, so you can change and they will accept it and like it. We are all personally more critical with ourselves than other people are. I wish you the best! Hope you´ll get where you want to :)
i already know this, just came here from a notification... nevermind, good take
Great advice though I had no firends and I did go in a trip (5-6 days) with people who I didn't know but I interacted with them very little and I am still that awkward guy and to be honest with you I need morethen a week to get rid of it.
It´s so great to hear that you at least tried tho! Of course it needs more than a week. After my week, the exchange year followed where I´ve been less afraid of, but still. I practiced my skills all year long, so don´t worry if it doesn´t work out for you that quickly :) good luck!
Thanks for support little brat I suppose I can't compare to you because we are different. I wish myself best too hope I manage to make it a shift this year
Screw changing and being extrovert. Being awkward isn't that bad
I use to want to be an extrovert but I'm ok with having my moments
Maybe deep down you were just an extrovert afterall and just shy!
In the right crowd you can be...
I came for the bikinis
no you asker are wrong
Meh, i'm good the way I am.
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Good advice thanks for sharing.
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