It is important to recognize a person or a toxic relationship, but we hardly ever talk about the opposite situation.
Can you recognize when you have the right person next to you?
We're tired of repeating that "nobody is perfect" and we end up with less than we deserve. However, there are people who are really worthy of our time and effort.
What characteristics the right person should have?
One of the signs that your partner is the right person is that he/she shows real interest in your life and listens attentively when you are speaking. They also remember things you told about yourself.
On the other hand, if the person you're dating always monopolize the conversation, don't ask about you or your day, and then move away when you start talking, it's a red flag!
• You know how to spend time apart
When you're with the right person, your partner understands that there are things you want to do on your own.
We all need time to do our own things, and the right relationship is the one in which both partners understand and are happy for each other.
• You admire each other
Admiration is one of the fundamental pillars for a relationship to work and last. If you admire and celebrate your partner's achievements and he celebrates yours, you are on the right track.
Also, one doesn't want to change the other. You acknowledge that you are not perfect and accept and cherish each other for who you are now – not who you can become.
• Your friends and family like you as a couple
One of the easiest ways to know if you are with the right person is to pay attention to the feedback you receive from friends and family.
It is not necessary for your family and friends to go nuts over your relationship, but their general feeling should be positive.
• You both disagree, but with respect
The right relationship is not about everything being perfect, but about partners having a high level of respect when things don't happen as expected.
You may disagree with your partner and fights are normal, but it is important that it's done respectfully.
That means avoiding swearing and insulting.
• You share a passion for the future
With the right person, you both get excited about a future together.
Partners who share a common vision of the future are usually much better than partners who don't discuss the matter.
• You are attracted by all aspects of them - Mind, Body and Spirit!
It's obvious you're attracted to him/her, otherwise you wouldn't be together. This attraction is probably the first thing that motivated the search for a relationship.
♡ But are you attracted to his/her mind? ♡
♡ Are you attracted to his/her spirit? ♡
♡ Is he/she the kind of person you could talk in a few years, when you're both old and wrinkled? ♡
You're with the right person when you get so excited about the late-night chats as to what happens in the bedroom.
• You trust each other
Trust is primordial in a relationship; without it, there's no way it can last. If you can trust your partner, it's a good sign that he may be the right person for you.
You also don't feel the pressure or the need to pretend to be someone else - you are yourself all the time. What in other relationships was given in a forced way, you feel that happens in a fluid and natural way now.
There are many other signs that can show you are dating the right person. They may not be common for all couples but they can easily reveal whether their relationship has future or not.
When the right person comes along, you'll feel it in your guts
Do yourself a favor and watch the person next to you with a sharp eye.
You may be surprised to realize he/she is really the right person, or you can save many lost years and a lot of heartache.
♡ Good luck! ♡