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Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave" (Page 3)

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  • shephardjhon
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    of course not ONE mention of abusive wives, not by you and not in the comments. Keep spreading the myth that men are only abusers.

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
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      I agree with you. But I am a woman and wrote this from my personal experience. You're welcome to do the same.

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  • ericclayton
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    You *can* "just leave". Some women (and men) will internalize abuse. Some will not accept it and cut it off at the first sign of the abusive behavior. That decision is dependent on self-esteem.

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  • Anonymous
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    When “HE” hurts you?
    Because females never abuse/hurt males?

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
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      This is my perspective. I am female. He was male.
      You are correct. Both genders are capable of abusing and being abused.

      Reply
    • TonyMetal86
      TonyMetal86
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      Were you abused and beaten by your man miss xo xo?

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
      +1 y

      Yes.

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
      +1 y

      An ex.

      Reply
    • TonyMetal86
      TonyMetal86
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      Too bad, you look like a sweet nice girl, why would a guy beats a girl filled with xo's and love...🤨

      When a girl respects her man, she shall be respected and when a husband is the head of the house it means your duty is to take good care of your wife provide for her and protect her, not beating her and humiliating her... instead of slapping her, give her many xo xo xo 😄

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    • Justcallmealy
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      Don't be annoying... This was a woman talking about terrible things that happened to some women. We don't complain that way when men want to talk about themselves, so chill out

      Reply
    • TonyMetal86
      TonyMetal86
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      @Justcallmealy mind your own business okay, no one talked with you or had stepped on your tail 🤨

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
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      No, she's right. @TonyMetal86.
      I stopped responding when you replied with "when a girl respects her man".
      I didn't do anything wrong to this man except try to love him, even when he didn't deserve it. I gave him respect when no one else did, even now that I know he didn't deserve it.
      The only fault of mine was staying when I didn't have to. I should have left sooner. He could have killed me. He could have killed the child I carried. I'm lucky that I'm not one of the other statistics.
      You're neglecting to acknowledge that some people are just not of sound mind. This man had mental issues of some kind that were unresolved. I tried to help resolve them, which could hint to a mental issue of my own, but he didn't want it or he didn't think he was doing anything wrong.
      No one deserves that.

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    • TonyMetal86
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      What's right about her and what are the things that you didn't like in my answer?

      What i said is my own opinion and you have your own experience, you are replying on me based on your own experience and if your ex became a good man, hugged you and thanked you for making him a better man and he changed a lot to appreciate you and loved you thr way you do to him than you wouldn't be saying this to me right now that she's right and bla bla bla 🤨

      People are different and give their views based on their own story...

      I know that your a good girl and i'm sad to hear this, because such women are rare, if your man knew how precious you are, he would of changed and never hurt you again, also become the man who protects you and not the one who beats you...

      People aren't perfect, some men might slap their wives but they should know that their wives haven't left as much as they love them, so it's time to change and do your job as a man which giving the safety and protection for you wife and not the opposite, she gave you her lifr and herself, now it's your responsibility to take care of her, if you lose her, it means you have lost everything.

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  • Anonymous
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    I’m in this type of relationship right now. I’ve lost almost all my friends. I’m depressed. I feel insecure around her because of the things she’s said to hurt me. I feel stuck. I moved out here for her, so I got no one left.

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    • Justcallmealy
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      Seriously? I sorry to read that...

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    • goaded
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      Move back (wherever), it's never too late. If they're your friends, they'll be happy to see you again.

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  • bhavy24
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    Nice mytake, i think sometimes the person so blind in love that he/she doesn't know that this won't in future and need to raise their voice against this when it took place for very first time

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  • FunkyMonkee
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    "Because I LOVE him!!" That's the answer I always get.

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  • John_Doesnt
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    If everybody knew Kung Fu we wouldn't have to worry about domestic violence.

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    • goaded
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      Except he would, too.

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    • John_Doesnt
      John_Doesnt
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      @goaded he clearly needed more kung fu.

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    • StingRayxoxo
      StingRayxoxo
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      @John_Doesnt Thanks for the laugh!!

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  • VIVANT
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    I think mostly bc there is no where to go

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  • TheBigGiantHead900
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    It not always women who get abused physically or verbally, men get abused ethier mentally or physically by their partner.

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  • ChiPaPa
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    They can just leave if they seek help, often times they won't listen to reason.

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  • pizzalovershouse
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    some girls let guys treat them that way cuz I think they have very low esteeme

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    • Justcallmealy
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      I agree, it's probably a part of the problem

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  • PrincessGrail
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    Thank you

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  • Anonymous
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    if you get pregnant GOOD LUCK
    some guys will kill once a child is involved

    and women are being killed daily by men

    women keep doing stupid shit

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    • Justcallmealy
      Justcallmealy
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      What about the men doing the kiling? Aren't they the stupid ones?

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    • Anonymous
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      @Justcallmealy

      how are they the stupid ones

      the women are the ones who break the rules the most
      men are just following the rules of GOD that he put on their hearts

      Leviticus 20:10
      If a man commits adultery with another man's wife--with the wife of his neighbor--both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death

      Proverbs 6
      For jealousy is the rage of a man: therefore he will not spare in the day of vengeance.
      He will not regard any ransom; neither will he rest content, though thou givest many gifts

      so how many do you wanna go through?

      Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave"

      Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave"

      and he killed the other guys mom lol
      all because he slept with some guys girlfriend
      Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave"

      like I said
      KEEP GOING LADIES
      KEEP CHEATING AND BEING STUPID
      US MEN WILL KEEP KILLING YOU

      Domestic Violence: Why You Can't "Just Leave"

      you make you make you make crazy :)
      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cWomT2RQgvU

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    • Justcallmealy
      Justcallmealy
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      What a sicko!

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
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      @Justcallmealy

      look it's not my fault happens every day

      DO THE RIGHT THING LADIES AND WE WON'T KILL YOU
      THAT SIMPLE

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    • Justcallmealy
      Justcallmealy
      +1 y

      Just start by yourself. You'd do the World a favor lol

      Reply
    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Justcallmealy

      hun no matter how you feel it will not change sorry
      but this is the world GOD put you in

      so try your best to be good
      you don't have to be perfect
      but at least try to do the right thing

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    • Justcallmealy
      Justcallmealy
      +1 y

      You should start by following your own saying:«try to do the right thing». Killing people isn't the right thing

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    • Anonymous
      Opinion Owner
      +1 y

      @Justcallmealy

      under the rules of GOD it is

      and if you say other wise you are wrong

      BECAUSE GOD IS NEVER WRONG

      Reply
    • Justcallmealy
      Justcallmealy
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      Where are you from? Just curious...

      Reply
  • GreenGold1992
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    I used to wonder the same thing about my Mom about her boyfriend

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  • Hannajenky
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    You can leave and you should.

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  • Eleni91
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    Xper 6 Age: 33
    +1 y

    I think they developed Stockholm Syndrome.

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    • Unit1
      Unit1
      +1 y

      Very accurate.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (45 Plus)
    +1 y

    The right wingers will attack you for sure... they feel it's a white man's right to rape women

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    • ShinyPants
      ShinyPants
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      literally who said that

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  • Cristian97
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    Xper 6 Age: 28
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    No woman should never be abused

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  • Lovethedove
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    That’s my brothers marriage right there.

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  • Riggers
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    Ngl I laughed at “trigger warning” 😂

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