If you can change him he "ain't" worth keeping. Most of these compatibility changes occur over time but are mutual and there is a center to it. But, if you are going in wanting to mold your bad boy into a househusband that cries. Just shoot him now.
"Most women look at people and see their potential"
That is such ardent B. S. it invalidates whatever else you're trying to say.
80% of women have mated with 40% of the men who have ever lived. Millions of women see potential in Justin Bieber - no women see potential in the millions of homeless men around the world.
I don't believe a woman can change a man, much less any one changing anybody. You can definitely have an impact, inspire or even encourage, but it's up to tbat person he/she to change.
A Woman should not change a man to whom they want or what the guys aspects are, if she sees something in the guy she wants to change, then she may see a quality in the guy already. It maybe her aspects that need changing. The guy may/will have some annoying aspects, and if it gets too much, then call it quits.
But trying/wanting to change someone elses' complete personality so they can 'hang' around with them is not wise and can cause problems in the future!
I don't dare try to change a man! And he shouldn't try to change me either! I love myelf and damn proud of Most of the things I've done for my life! And if he can't accept that then there's the door! Fuck him!
I sense that you've gone through all the deception spread by movies on a personal experience level to arrive at the, mostly valid, conclusions in your Take.
One thing you've got wrong, tough, is that women see potential in stuff. The truth is that mothers see the potential in stuff. But women who don't have children absolutely see things for what they are, or appear to be.
Which is also why they are rather easily fooled. Ahem.
This is the main problem, all y'all are delisuinal and can't tell the freaking difference between movies and reality. First of all, people don't change, trying to change them will make them hate you. The hell is wrong with you? Look for someone you want the way they are not a project that will be a mission impossible and a waste of time for the both of you... FFS...
"A woman will enter a relationship hoping her man will change.. and he never does.
A man will enter a relationship hoping his woman will never change.. and she always does."
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With men it's the same as it is with women. What you see is what you get. To have a believe you can change somebody is not reality. A person has to change because they want to change women or men. The only change that can be forced upon them is to make them hate you, that's if hate is what you are trying to achieve. You could suggest a change for them, but be careful let them know it's positive criticism.
Not anymore. WOmen need to stop letting hollywood dictate what relationships should be. Men are a LOT more careful with women than we've historically been and the ability to stabilize a man is largely becoming a thing of the past.
If you are going into a relationship trying to change the person you are with you don't care about them you care about the person you want them to be, just leave before anyone gets hurt
It has to be in there to start with.. Most people put up a front to impress their friends. So it's not changing them they know how to behave. I he has had no guidance as a kid, all I can say keep well clear...
The movies don't tell us anything. They are meant for entertainment purposes only. If you need a movie to tell you the difference between right and wrong or common sense for that matter, you need to seek counseling.
no, no woman can change a man, and no man can change a woman. people are what they are and never change in the essential parts. keep in mind that. I'm not talking here about small mistakes.
U can never change a man. No one can change another person. It's just they behave differently when they are with u, and they go back to normal once you are not there.
Um I had this girl I used to date in high school that helped change me into a better person I used to smoke weed she helped me quit smoking I used to get mad easily and she helped me control my anger you know?
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If you can change him he "ain't" worth keeping. Most of these compatibility changes occur over time but are mutual and there is a center to it. But, if you are going in wanting to mold your bad boy into a househusband that cries. Just shoot him now.
"Most women look at people and see their potential"
That is such ardent B. S. it invalidates whatever else you're trying to say.
80% of women have mated with 40% of the men who have ever lived. Millions of women see potential in Justin Bieber - no women see potential in the millions of homeless men around the world.
I don't believe a woman can change a man, much less any one changing anybody. You can definitely have an impact, inspire or even encourage, but it's up to tbat person he/she to change.
A Woman should not change a man to whom they want or what the guys aspects are, if she sees something in the guy she wants to change, then she may see a quality in the guy already. It maybe her aspects that need changing. The guy may/will have some annoying aspects, and if it gets too much, then call it quits.
But trying/wanting to change someone elses' complete personality so they can 'hang' around with them is not wise and can cause problems in the future!
Romance movies brainwash, i opt for more slow anime like 'Spirited away' or 'The grave of fireflies'.
I don't dare try to change a man! And he shouldn't try to change me either! I love myelf and damn proud of Most of the things I've done for my life! And if he can't accept that then there's the door! Fuck him!
I sense that you've gone through all the deception spread by movies on a personal experience level to arrive at the, mostly valid, conclusions in your Take.
One thing you've got wrong, tough, is that women see potential in stuff. The truth is that mothers see the potential in stuff. But women who don't have children absolutely see things for what they are, or appear to be.
Which is also why they are rather easily fooled. Ahem.
This is the main problem, all y'all are delisuinal and can't tell the freaking difference between movies and reality. First of all, people don't change, trying to change them will make them hate you. The hell is wrong with you? Look for someone you want the way they are not a project that will be a mission impossible and a waste of time for the both of you... FFS...
They can't and shouldn't try to change us. But a good woman can inspire us.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEHPP3ysUAAno. what about this: you look for a guy that IS decent instead of picking some random douche in hopes to change him for the better some day?
"A woman will enter a relationship hoping her man will change.. and he never does.
A man will enter a relationship hoping his woman will never change.. and she always does."
With men it's the same as it is with women. What you see is what you get. To have a believe you can change somebody is not reality. A person has to change because they want to change women or men. The only change that can be forced upon them is to make them hate you, that's if hate is what you are trying to achieve. You could suggest a change for them, but be careful let them know it's positive criticism.
Not anymore. WOmen need to stop letting hollywood dictate what relationships should be. Men are a LOT more careful with women than we've historically been and the ability to stabilize a man is largely becoming a thing of the past.
If you are going into a relationship trying to change the person you are with you don't care about them you care about the person you want them to be, just leave before anyone gets hurt
It has to be in there to start with.. Most people put up a front to impress their friends. So it's not changing them they know how to behave. I he has had no guidance as a kid, all I can say keep well clear...
The movies don't tell us anything. They are meant for entertainment purposes only. If you need a movie to tell you the difference between right and wrong or common sense for that matter, you need to seek counseling.
no, no woman can change a man, and no man can change a woman. people are what they are and never change in the essential parts. keep in mind that. I'm not talking here about small mistakes.
U can never change a man.
No one can change another person.
It's just they behave differently when they are with u, and they go back to normal once you are not there.
Um I had this girl I used to date in high school that helped change me into a better person I used to smoke weed she helped me quit smoking I used to get mad easily and she helped me control my anger you know?
A person can change for their own best interests, if those interests happen to be you then voila!
Women don’t give a shit about men anymore unless you’re a perfect 6’ chad. That trope is long gone fantasy world even if it ever existed