Do guys want a girl with a perfect body?

[Anonymous]

so there's two guys that like me - (both cute) one of them with a really attractive body (broad shoulders, abs, nice height) I'm between a petite and curvy, short girl and they seem to think I'm pretty - my body isn't like a models though, it's kind of average... I'm wondering if they are just desperate or if they really don't care that I don't have long thin legs and a four pack?

[TadCurious]

Don't sell yourself short. (No joke intended.) And you shouldn't sell these guys short either. Try to accept the fact that they like you and are attracted to you just the way you are. Don't beat yourself up about not being someone else's idea of "perfect."

[Asker]

haha :p aw.. okay.. that's a nice answer

[BiffWebster]

they say they do... but hey cute girls matter... and just because they aren't tight like a athletic runner isn't going to phaze most

[Asker]

that's nice to hear from a guy! thanks for commenting :)

[BiffWebster]

ahhh no problem... some of us are quite decent actually

[Asker]

I have another question but I exceeded the amount of questions I can ask and maybe you"ll be able to help with this one too? do u think shy guys prefer the girl to ask to hang out or have her give a lot of hints until he's brave enough? and yea seems like it :)

[Asker]

(to ask her himself)

[BiffWebster]

yea that would be amazing for any guy in my opinion. Guys do have pressure to ask out the girl, because thats whats expected. But when a girl does it can be like 0_0 "oh thank god!!!"
Thats if you know you like each other obviously. But yea it helps.

And hints help... especially affection and shit... makes the guy braver to be like "oh yea i can do this." Problem with that though is that people have a tendency to send mixed signals alot, and because of that people always fear failure and rejection.

[Asker]

hahaha okay,
me and this guy were messaging each other (it's pretty clear we both like each other) i said I had to go then added on ps we should hang out sometime?:)
and he said yea we should :) I'll ttyl
and now I have a feeling he's waiting for me to say hi first cuz i think he's still afraid of showing too much interest but I already suggested we should hang out should i let him do the rest?

[BiffWebster]

yea you already texted him so you wait now. But its not bad to just check up and see how everything is if he's a little slow. If he likes you oh he'll make time to chill believe me.

[Asker]

ah okay :) Thankyou :):)

[BiffWebster]

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[Asker]

another question :$ what are some compliments that a guy would like hearing? I don't want to tell him I think he's "hot" just cuz it might sound funny coming from me - but is cute a compliment that guys want to hear?

[BiffWebster]

i like your hair lol, or eyes.
-_- to be honest never really heard much lmao

[Asker]

that was like the most basic thing ever lol but thanks anyways :p

[Asker]

what is something you'd like to hear tho?

[Asker]

ps that's too bad:/

[BiffWebster]

lmfao yea im sorry it is
in all honesty i don't know. See my eyes are violet... so a lot of girls that i meet are like O__O wow!!!

[BiffWebster]

feels good ^^

[Asker]

whoa, I don't think I've ever met someone with that colour eyes!! - but yea that's good :)

[BiffWebster]

hell i think its sexy lmao

[poppunk]

Of course, but the definition of perfection is subjective. Your body is someones 10, to another a 2. Thats just how it works

[cavmanier]

Agreed!

[still_waiting]

So true!

[SleepyChan]

If all guys wanted that, they would have a sad life. Personality is what counts.

[still_waiting]

Thin legs are overrated, abs on girls are gross IMO.

[funkipunk]

Looks mean something, but they're not the only thing.

Most (rational) guys realize that not all women look like supermodels, and don't set such high expectations for women to meet before willing to date them. I'm sure both of these men find you attractive just the way you are.

And you don't have to have a four pack or long thin legs to be attractive. I actually find that women who're overly muscular don't look attractive because... well they look like men.

[Anonymous]

well they like you... from experience, when I like a girl I don't pay much attention to these things. Plus they already like you don't worry about it, I'm sure they checked you out an infinite number of times and liked it!
From the description it sounds like a really good body if you're that worried :)

[Asker]

thanks, that was a sweet way to put it :)

[Opinion Owner]

That's how I do it baby ;)

[DodgersGM]

There's really no such thing as "perfection", so I really don't think you should concern yourself with that.

If they're into you and they like you, then they want you exactly as you are. Just trust in that.

[nickstaa]

I'm sure they wouldn't mind having a girl with a perfect body but that doesn't mean they're going to get one and I'm sure every guy would settle for a lot less.

If a guy doesn't have a perfect body then he has bo right to complain about a girl not having one.

[AndyWes]

The majority of guys know they'll never get a girl with a perfect body. As long as you're not overweight, you're probably in good standing compared to dating standards, haha.

[tetris21]

No. Because there is no such thing. Its a matter of preference. But a confident, well put together woman can get whomever she wants.

[cavmanier]

Petite and curvy is much more attractive than model bodies in my opinion -__- Like 100 times better

[Encolpius]

Personality is what counts. Anyone who turns someone down for not being "perfect" is pretty shallow. Any relationship based on "hotness" is doomed to fail, because there's no substance there.

[Anonymous]

Perfect is obviously what everyone wants but, nobody's perfect

[Asker]

what kind of girl do u usually go for?

[Opinion Owner]

One that goes for me

[PleaselllBeNiceNat]

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No, but it's gotta be something like this.

[PleaselllBeNiceNat]

OIIIIIIIII

[Insaan]

No problem... We dont calculate much in detail if we like a girl. Nobody is perfect. And you are nobody.

[Insaan]

And you seem like a sexy petite girl.

[RightNow]

I've seen and been with girls who have perfect bodies. If they have a bad personality, it doesn't matter what they look like.

[ricookc]

Perfect body is totally individual thing. I like curves myself