I kissed hugged and held hands with my crush at a party and now I can't stop thinking about him help?

[Anonymous]

Im not sure if he was drunk but he texted me this morning and I can't stop thinking about him

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+1 y

He wasn't drunk and does seem to care but it's difficult to get in touch with him so we never hang out :/ do any of you know what to do

[kataloso]

Did you text him back? Just try to let things play out, try to joke with him and keep things casual and it should naturally go from there. But don't wait to respond to him... in situations like that (after first kiss) the longer you wait for the next contact the more awkward it can become, and eventually a guy will just want to move on to avoid the awkwardness. Good luck.

[Asker]

Yeah I duid we kissed quite a lot during the party and I left earlier so he kissed me goodbye and he didn't get with anyone else.

[josesmaf]

I bet you couldn't stop thinking about him before this happened. Why do you want to stop thinking about him?

[Asker]

Because I think about him all the time now and I can't properly focus on things

[josesmaf]

Ride the wave of emotion and let it run its course. This, too, shall pass.

[bizzz]

Probably both of you have feelings for eachother. You should talk to him and hang out with him more when you're sober