I believe there is a reason behind why everything is the way it is, there is even an explanation as to why the sky is blue, but anyway, why are women naturally attracted to men that take charge, take the lead, are the dominant one in dating and relationships, is always or usually the one that makes something or makes things happen? hence thats why guys are still expected to be the initiators of dating and relationships, is an active participant, but guys who control their life and are assertive and aggressive about doing what they want and when they want unapologetically?
is there science and biology here?
Why does that indicate strength meanwhile the oppossite indicates weakness?
Yes because i will admit me being a guy i grew up introverted and socially-awkward so being dominant and being a leader, being assertive does not come naturally to me unfortuneately, i feel i should have this in me, deep inside i want to have those traits, since women won't change and i can't change other people i can only change myself, i'm sure women probably at times feel bitter and angry towards men for wishing men weren't attracted to the things they are attracted to in women, and probably the deep root of my bitterness and anger towards women as to why women have to be like that is because i'm kicking myself for not being the way earlier, and yes not now either but i don't know how i went wrong earlier that put me on this downward spiral.
is there science and biology here?
Why does that indicate strength meanwhile the oppossite indicates weakness?
Yes because i will admit me being a guy i grew up introverted and socially-awkward so being dominant and being a leader, being assertive does not come naturally to me unfortuneately, i feel i should have this in me, deep inside i want to have those traits, since women won't change and i can't change other people i can only change myself, i'm sure women probably at times feel bitter and angry towards men for wishing men weren't attracted to the things they are attracted to in women, and probably the deep root of my bitterness and anger towards women as to why women have to be like that is because i'm kicking myself for not being the way earlier, and yes not now either but i don't know how i went wrong earlier that put me on this downward spiral.
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deep inside i wish i was an Alpha, but growing up introverted it doesn't seem natural to me
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