New Relationship--- how do I loosen up?

[Anonymous]

So, I've recently started dating this guy. We've been talking for three weeks non-stop, like every night and we currently live a bit far away from each (once college starts it'll change) so we've only met 3 times. And he finally made a move the last time I saw him and he was very sweet and cute.

But my problem is we later talked and he mentioned that I'm a bit too controlling and that I didn't let him lead. I mean I felt that I didn't want him to just sit there and kiss me-- I didn't think he was getting much in return you. Like I loved it but wanted to return his kisses.. but he was like yea you have to let go and let me do whatever. so next time should I just let him do everything? I mean would you (as guys) enjoy that ?

and he's very experienced and I'm the polar opposite so I think maybe he just knows what he likes. or I'm not sure? lol

[Anonymous]

I don't think you should let him do whatever he wants, but at least try asking him if he'd like to give you a facial - it's a pretty intimate and hot act, especially for a newly formed couple.