Does love come naturally or do people work at it to love each other?

[Aggie_girl]

Wondering if after so many years in a relationship do couples work at staying in love or does it come naturally?

[FITFORRUNWAY]

Attraction comes naturally. Love takes time and patience, it does not just come naturally.

People say it was love at first sight but it was attraction or lust

After love is worked on it can feel like it is natural but the truth is love is sometimes controlled by your emotions. Which is why people can fall out of love.

(Im talking about being in love NOT just loving someone. You can always love someone But you will not always be IN LOVE )

[AnayaWilliams]

I've learned that if you really like a guy or he really likes you its best to take things slow and be friends first and then go from there.

[RestlessYouth_]

Falling in love is easy, it's working at keeping that same love and passion in the relationship that's hard.

[nohomo]

Honestly from what I've gone through, love comes naturally.