Lending money to a woman you met online?

Question

A girl I met online and I have been chatting. Things seemed to be perking along. Today she asked me to lend her dome money so she could shop with her girlfriends out if town. I refused her. I don't lend money to people I've never met in person. I'm disappointed and feel like I shoud end it. If I lend her money, I'll be a Beta make and not an Alpha. Should I drop her. ?

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

Smart Move and Groove, Marinepilot... once you fall for the money maneuver scheme they Begin their Beguine with, it doesn't stop there. I have known people to shake the last of their life savings for someone they fell head over heels in love with, only to be left penniless because they Never even Knew Who they were speaking to.
Many times over, behind that iron curtain of their own computer, you could be talking to a pretty face, but unless you go on Skype and really know who That person is, you could even be chit chatting With-------A man from Nigeria or Guiana.
A man from Egypt found me on Fb nearly four years ago. We spent many months on Skype and Yahoo and before I would even Leave American soil to fly over to an unknown land, I made sure I knew Who I was speaking to, all about his family that I spent time with online with and that as smart as I am, I didn't end up being taken or Mistaken for someone who didn't know her head from a hole in the ground. I ended up going over, everything was koshore and even returned months later, where we tied the knot.
Yes, many scammers and online cons out there. Anytime the dollar signs start to add up, it should Immediately ring a bell as well.
Good luck, good work... stay clear, dear. xx

Hopefuldreamer8 · Accepted Answer

Good for you. I always hear about men who do end up lending women money. I've never understood why they do that. I always hears of stories of men getting scammed out of their money. The moment a woman asks to borrow money should be a red flag, but a lot of men don't see that. It's not just with online dating either. A guy I know got into a relationship with this girl because she was gorgeous. About a week into the relationship she started to ask for money from him. He kept lending her money and eventually she dumped him. I don't understand why he'd let that happen.

thechica · Accepted Answer

Dont do it!!! You don't even know her in person.. Just online.. She could delete you just like that ( she would get the money) and would not pay back.. Would you trust a person online? Most important she is just going use money to go shopping 🏬.. That's not very important..

chrisbigman · Accepted Answer

Why would she ask you for money, if you two never met in person? Seems like a love scammer to me. Run away if she's not willing to meet in person so that you can get to know her - what kind of person she is.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Accepted Answer

She is scammer you need to watch when they ask for money that's red flag you know, she's not for real them dating sites are like every other site you got to be careful.

misscoffeehead · Answer

Wait so let me get this right..
This girl chatted to you "online".. Things been going well.. Out of no where she ask you for money so she can shop with her girlfriends?
WTF!! 😐

Why haven't you dropped her yet? (Rhetorical question)

Account · Answer

"Should I drop her?" So you're over 35 and you're asking whether you should drop her or not? I... I should shut off my emotions immediately. I should shut off the rest of my brain too.

Billlewis · Answer

When I meet a woman online, and the conversation turns to money, I'll sometimes offer her some money if she'll send me an audio clip of her having sex with her boyfriend, because I love listening to a beautiful woman getting fucked.

BelleGirl21 · Answer

It has nothing to do with being a beta and an alpha. You do not lend money to someone you met online. In fact you should only lend money to people you've built a very steady relationship with in real life.

CatInLove · Answer

Are you even considering it? Don't lend money to people you don't know. Ever. And don't lend money for someone to go shopping.  She is obviously not good news.

Anonymous · Answer

Being a beta has nothing to do with wether or not you lend jer money... You noy being subordinate by doing either. Good for you for not doing so. If you don't trust her, you shouldn't. Drop her if you want to/no longer interested. Your call.

SamiJane · Answer

Anyone who asks for money from someone they met online is a scammer to me. That's a BIG red flag. Don't do it. I would say drop her.

Imtheone88 · Answer

your either not 35 or an idiot to consider such a thing...

JackKerouac77 · Answer

DON'T DO IT I LOST $15,000 THAT WAY OHMIGAWD FUCK YOU SHERRY FUCK YOU STRAIGHT TO HELL

thewanderingme · Answer

I never ask for or give/loan money to anyone period.

Sexualchrist · Answer

Never give money to anyone you met online, use your brain.

Anonymous · Answer

Forget being beta or alpha. She's a scammer and you would be really dumb to lend her money. Don't bother

Ihav2fart · Answer

Do it, lend her all your money. Great investment dude

NYlatefun · Answer

Everything was making sense until you polluted it with the Alpha/Beta comment.  It’s obvious she (he) is taking advantage of you.

Anonymous · Answer

You're that same guy that said you were like 60 and how you can get girls around 25. I see why haha.

Error_204 · Answer

Drop her for her sake. You're an idiot.

abundantlyrich · Answer

It could be a guy behind the scrn.

Anonymous · Answer

Alpha beta bullshit. Ugh.

Developer · Answer

Run away fast!

JohnScofield787 · Answer

yeap - drop her.

Anonymous · Answer

Very bad choice

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