Should I dump my girlfriend for peeing herself?

Question

Me and my girlfriend were out last night and were both pretty drunk. Walking home she told me she had to pee but I know she doesn't like peeing outside so when I told her to squat she told me she couldn't. Eventually she stopped , and squirmed a little with her hand on her crotch. She said "babe I'm so desperate. I need to pee so much". Just a little bit later she said "no, no, help! Im weeing". I looked down and saw pee dribbling down her leg and then start to drip straight down onto the ground from under her skirt. She was mortified but so was I. In the end she had to take off her underwear and leave it at the side of the road. I haven't spoken to her since the incident and I don't know how to deal with it. Can't believe it happened. Any advice? Thanks.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Think about all the times you have been drunk. Think about all of the stupid things you have done while you were drunk.
So don't dump her.

Not a big drinker? That's okay. I can tell you some of the stupid things people have done while drunk. People throw up all the time. Many times they don't get to a toilet and end up throwing up all over themselves. People have been arrested for pulling their pants down to pee in public. I personally know someone who thought his roommate's hamper was the toilet and peed all over his roommate's clothes.
At least she didn't pee on YOU. At least she didn't pull her skirt off and get arrested for public indecency.
So don't dump her.

Weirdstuff · Accepted Answer

Haha. That could have been a lot worse man. Imagine that she did that in your bed? Anyways, this is the first time that she has done this and it was not her intention to do this. That doesn't make it super, but forgivable. But you might not be so in love as you think you are if this is a big enough reason to dump her.

crazyincalifornia · Accepted Answer

Stupidest question ever! Is there anyway I can delete it.

swolebookworm · Accepted Answer

If you really have to think about dumping your girlfriend because she peed herself, you have serious issues in your relationship...

If I has a gf that peed on herself i would of helped her get home and stuff, in my car without any problme sitting on the bench. Its just pee, i would wash it after, its no big deal!

I can't believe you were going to dump your little girl for that...

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

You're kidding me right... what will be your reaction when she farts near you? I call troll

Ghost1962 · Answer

I see this all the time when a boy friend/husband talks about how they have someone that has wet their pants. When its a woman that dose this all the woman say dont leave her its probably a medical issue, you should help her and all this feel sorry for her stuff. But if a man has a problem like this all the woman say leave him, that's gross, dont associate with a man that wets the bed or his pants. Around when I turned 30 I fell off a roof, and I injured my back to the point I wasn't sure I would be able to walk again. After 3 months the swelling went down on my spine, and was lucky I was actually able to walk. The only problem is I damaged nerves that controlled my bladder, she was disgusted with me because I have to wear diapers for the rest of my life. She would embarrass me about it, tell everyone she knew, and refused sex with me to the point she was having affairs. She finally got sick of me wearing diapers that she ended up leaving me. All her female friends said for her to leave me. I lost friends because she got them to feel sorry for her.

mrsean · Answer

That's not a good reason to dump somebody, especially since she was outside and didn't mess anything up, like a car seat or something. A lot of girls wear skirts so they can pee easily, just need to find a spot to do it. I guess you guys don't know much about drinking, maybe there's a FAQ someplace.

lusolari · Answer

omg dont dump her she was drunk give her a break. she should dump you for being such an asshole!!! why would you even consider that. it is even worse than dumping a guy because he has premature ejaculation because at least he is sober.

ScruffyNerfHerder · Answer

Honestly, you'd have to be a pretty heartless bastard to dump her for that. The lesson to learn is not to drink so much, not to dump a girl went something horribly embarrassing happens to her.

becca123 · Answer

Perhaps some adult diapers before the next rollicking drink til you pee and puke and pass out excursion. Dump her? No freaking way. Thank you for making me laugh at the visual. :P

jjrobertson · Answer

youse were both drunk a lot of girls wet themselves or worse once drunk i wouldn't dump her over that it seems immature

abzence · Answer

Is that really such a big deal? She was mortified. It's not like she stood there smiling like an idiot while she did it.

Anonymous · Answer

How about the two of you stop getting drunk? That would solve the problem right there.

Michael-in-SC · Answer

Kind of a silly reason to cut off a relationship. Sure you aren't just looking for a reason? I fingered my wife while she was peeing before. Took me about 2 months to talk her into letting me, and you want to drop this girl for that? SMH.

Red_Arrow · Answer

She should dump yo for thnking that way. But there is a good chance she learned a lesson and will take the advice of squatting next time.

NervousPie · Answer

LMFAOOOO I CANTTTTT OHMG I can't breath ok calm down... YOU DUMPING HER OVER THAT LMFAOOO talk about immature!! Grow up.

LousyLoudMusic · Answer

it was honest mistake. it wil be stupid to dump her over something like that.

Anonymous · Answer

Doesn't sound like she did anything against you. Get over it. And help her to. And stop getting so piss a** drunk.

maggieq15 · Answer

U shouldn't mine  hasn't  and I've pissed myself 2times in front of him SOBER

bubbletrouble · Answer

She was drunk. Shit happens when you are drunk. Just forget about it.

Anonymous · Answer

HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH i can't EVEN... POST OF THE DAY...

Anonymous · Answer

Are you kidding? That's hot! I wish my girlfriend would do that for me! Lucky dude...

Nameless_ · Answer

You know... pissing for girls is too normal.. their vaginas grow up and they pee so if you like to dump every girl for pissing , you can no longer date

CreamySeed · Answer

You should have sold her soiled undies on ebay many lonely men would pay

FistSlaminElite · Answer

Dump her cause she deserves a guy better than you

Libs52 · Answer

wtf no! she didn't pee on you!

Leavesbound · Answer

If you don't want her I'll take her.

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

doesn't sound too bad.

Roycaryn · Answer

Are you still drunk?

Jersey1 · Answer

Seriously? Grow up.

Nilanjan · Answer

No worries

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