Why am I so afraid to sit next to my crush?

[tremo2016]

I used to sit next to the girl I like but my teacher changed our seats. Sometimes towards the end of class she sits alone and I want to talk to her but I am too afraid to get up and I never do it. I think I am afraid of her thinking that I like her, but I dont want her to I just want to be friends for now. So how can I stop being so afraid and not look desperate to talk to her and look like I like her when I just want to be friends? How can I stop being so nervous to get up and sit next to her because she is a very friendly person but for some reason she stopped talking to me. I haven't had a real conversation with her for months now and I want to again. Also I have talked to her before and we had pretty good conversations.

[ImmaCatchYou]

I'm a little confused because by the title you said "crush" and then you said "friends" lol but anyway, seriously, she wouldn't mind. She could be getting a little lonely over there anyway. I think that if you do sit next to her and start talking to her in any way she might think that at first you like her (girls always jump to concluions) BUT since you just want to be friends, start talking to her in a "friendly" way. Like think about the things you talk about with your other female friends if you have any. Just calm... calm down... be... yourself Lol don't try to force yourself to be more interesting so she would talk to you because then you will feel awkward :P!

[tremo2016]

I like her but I just want to start out as friends, thats why I said that.

[ImmaCatchYou]

That's cool that's cool. How'd it go? If you haven't done it already

[tremo2016]

I really want to but I haven't had a chance yet. I have had so many chances in the past and now there's none!!

[ImmaCatchYou]

Welp just remember its never too late. You'll have another chance just make sure you dont freeze up and overthink your actions.

[tremo2016]

thank!!!

[Anonymous]

When u see her alone just sit with her and say " hey ____ i just thought u could use some company" and then start a small convo. Maybe ask how her weekend was

[Michelleeeee]

bro if ur a boy and got a crush on a girl just go and say hi or smth. Just risk u only live once. I’m sitting next to my crush too the only period I got no friends in that class that my crush is there too. And i’m sitting right next to her (I’m girl😭).