If you cry over someone, does that mean you're in love?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

Esp when you don't normally cry.

[LovelyDisquiet]

Yeah. I think it does.

That's the only reason I figured out I loved him. Because out of everyone in life that I've moved on from. I can only still cry about him.

[Asker]

I Never cried about anything else lol

[apple24]

wow that so sweet. @LovelyDisquiet

[Asker]

Lol it's awkward for me :p

[idkwtftoputhere]

As weird as it is to admit this but I cried over someone's death and I didn't even know who they were, let alone love them, so I'm going to say no.

[Asker]

Yeah I'm omitting things like death illness hardship disappearance... Just crying bc you can't be with them. If it's " hurt" I think hurt is part of losing love.

[Anonymous]

either you love that person or are really emotionally attached to that person

[Account]

No. It could be due to obsession. Obsession is not love.

[Asker]

Really bc apparently when someoen is in love the chemical make up of the brain resembles that of a heroine addict lol

I think being in love is probably very similar to obsession maybe not love itself.

What do you think the difference is?

[Account]

I assume the difference is that loving someone means you'd do anything in order to see them happy. You'd sacrifice anything and anyone for them. You'd even stop pursuing them for their sake.
Obsessing over someone means you simply want to have them for your own.
I might be wrong though.

[tae_ie]

it really depends, if your crying happilly for the love you have for them i belive it’s pure and if not it obession

[YourFutureEx]

You cry because you are hurt. You're hurt because you care. You care because you have some feelings for him. Feelings? Oh is this <3 ? Maybe...

[Aleyah]

Can you help me out?

[YourFutureEx]

@Aleyah Yes?

[apple24]

Your crying because it hurts. It could be someone else that hurt.

[Asker]

I think losing love hurts or not being able to be with someone hurts bc you love them.

[apple24]

I think that were all selfish in our way. I mean if it hurt it might be because your hurting. One example, one day I walk to classroom and i couldn't help ignore this couple. I noticed the guy he was very attractive but he was with this beatiful girl. I couldn't help feel like this big pain in my chest. I felt like I loved him and it hurt so much. Eventhou I only seen him a few times. I went through this big depression and would cry everyday in front of everyone. I just couldn't contain it and i cried over and over again. But it realize that it isn't about that guy but really of what I wanted. I wanted to be loved and pretty and attractive. I wanted friendship and someone to share a laugh with. I felt like that guy would be my answer. I wanted a relationship with someone but I was just lonely. I just wanted to express myself with another human begin. I didn't want the guy to make me feel special because I was the one who wanted to make me feel special. I need to get a hobby and laugh,

[apple24]

I still see this guy around town and it hurt sometime. I even get jealous which is strange since I

[apple24]

never even had a conversation with him and he been 2 serious relationship.

[Asker]

thays the sting of jealousy and it's generic as you dk him.

[apple24]

Really that not response I am looking for. Lol, YOU don't get!

[sexy2367]

I saw the boy of my dreams I like him he likes me so what does it mean when cry 4 that boy iam in love wit him

[apple24]

@sexy2367 Possibly... anything is possible.

[tattooedhandfet]

I cried recently and I'm wondering the same.

[Asker]

Yeah I think it probably means you are... I don't see why a person would be so overtaken by emotion if they were not in love especially if the person they cry over is not dead or I'll or injured or " gone".

[tattooedhandfet]

Ah please don't tell me this...

I'm just gonna call it that funny feeling
I'd rather wait til I'm sure
But when I cried I cried cuz it hurt like hell in my whole body. I do t know how to explain

Did u also experience this?

[Asker]

Yes and it's the only things ve ever felt that way sboit... Even though I've been through rough stuff it's the only thing that physically hurt from inside and caused me to shed tears.

[tattooedhandfet]

So it's that 4 letter word then?

[sammy_31]

You cry because you care.

[R3d_Anonymous]

It could be infatuation too, right?

[Asker]

I don't think that would cause pain - not for me anyhow I don't hurt easy. plus if it's years long I think thats no longer infatuation :)

[R3d_Anonymous]

What if you date a guy for a few weeks, everything seems to be going really well and then you two have sex and then get dumped.

Won't you cry as a result of that?

[Asker]

No I don't hold feelings for anyone who dumps me. It's done were finished that's it. And I'm not going to cry bc I had sex I only have sex if I want to. So it's never a regret.

[Ihav2fart]

I dont cry over people.

[Asker]

Yeah neither have I ever until now that's whyyet im asking the question.

[Ihav2fart]

why did you cry?

[Anonymous]

no thats called addiction and withdrawal symptoms!

[Asker]

What's the difference between being in love and being addicted. Also why do you assume crying means addiction as apposed to in love. Are you persoanlly more likely to cry when you quit a substance than when you lose a person you care about or can't be with them... Im just wondering why addiction seems more likely than in love ( if they are even differnt)

I've quit smoking and I've gone on fasts and I didn't cry by the way.

So anyways I find it Intersting that you think crying means addiction not deep affection for another human being. I mean when you have the choice to pick you choose the thing over the humsn being. .

[Toadette]

I would say, yes.