My girlfriend never remembers things i've said, yet I make the effort to remember everything she's said?

[Anonymous]

I might talk about things that i've been doing over the course of months and then she might suddenly ask me what i'm talking about- having apparently not listen else she would know, at least, the major details...

i thought girls were usually the ones to complain about this, what does it mean?

[canbrave]

She doesn't care about you this happen to my friend and sometimes I do this with my friends she is just using you for entertainment and don't believe the lies she say if oh I'm busy or something is on my mind or she try to a witch it and blame you for saying that the truth is she is just using you that's it the sooner the better my friend wasted two years and he regrets not seeing it sooner

Be with someone does the same effort

Think it like this two person is a team like in sports or in video games they need each other and both person need to put the same effort so the relationship can be successful

[CamelsAndArizona]

my girlfriend does that too man :/

[Asker]

... so what do you say to her when she forgets something important?

[CamelsAndArizona]

nothing i just let it go

[Anonymous]

More than likely she doesn't respect you enough to listen. It sounds like you are putting in a lot more effort into the relationship than she is. Its a really big red flag that I watch out for. You don't want to end up with a woman that doesn't respect you the way she should.

[Despondency]

I am sorry to hear that. I think what's happening is that really she just doesn't understand how much that hurts you. I feel you should ask her to remember these things because it means a lot to you! God luck! :)