She says everything I want to hear, or well, at least now is, but, doesn't want to be with me, why?

[Anonymous]

It's like she's my mirror image. She says everything i want to hear, but the only problem is, she just says she's 1. been hurt too much and 2. she doesn't have the time to date because she works 2 jobs, works out and travels a lot

What am i supposed to do? Again, she says everything that I would want to hear, and it's not like i even told her that it's what i'd want to hear, i just told her what i want, and it's like she repeats it back, thinking its what i want to hear

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We like each other by the way. We both have a mutual understanding of that, she just says she doesn't want to be dating

[OlderAndWiser]

The fact that she APPEARS to be perfect for you doesn’t mean you are perfect for her. You aren’t required to accept that, but there’s not much you can do about it. . . except chalk it up to “right person, wrong time” and move forward.

[OlderAndWiser]

And all of the excuses she is telling you. . . are most likely excuses, offered to try to avoid hitting your feelings, but the real message is that she just isn’t into you. . . not like you are into her.

[OlderAndWiser]

Hurting, not hitting

[Asker]

Oh, she's def. into me, even wants to have sex, it's just, it still doesn't make sense, that she would be saying everything right, but, then not want to actually date

[OlderAndWiser]

“she just isn’t into you. . . not like you are into her.” She likes you, and she wants sex, but she doesn’t want forever, at least not with you. What else could she possibly be saying?

[Asker]

Complicated but, we actually kind of want the same thing, it's just does she want the "same thing" with me, or not. She says she does, but, I dk

[OlderAndWiser]

In my, when a a girl says she doesn’t want a relationship with you and she gives you reasons that don’t make sense, trying to convince her to give you a chance never works out. Never.

[OlderAndWiser]

Been there, done that.

[Anonymous]

It might be time to pack it up. Find someone on the same page as you. she says she doesn't have time to date. I don't know what else to tell you

[Asker]

But she's basically everything I want in a girl, she just says she doesn't have time to date

[Opinion Owner]

I honestly don't know.
Maybe a fave to face conversation will help you

[Opinion Owner]

Face*

[KrakenAttackin]

She is putting you on the friend zone bench and keeping you in reserve.