I don't disrespect girls, so why do they disrespect me?

[Anonymous]

I probably never have disrespected a girl before; I probably joked around but never anything serious. So why do girls disrespect me?

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treat people the way you want to be treated I follow this because of good and bad karma and another on as well its goes something like this be kind to all the people you meet because on your way to the top you

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i follow that quote

[tex151]

I don't know what some of you guys are doing, but I for one have not been disrespected by a girl, probably because they know exactly what would happen if they tried, I would make them cry, therefore they don't even try.

You have to understand the way a woman's mind works, I have been in a enouph relationships to know a little bit about it. First things first, women are crazy bottom line. Women are lost in their own little world and they want to avoid confrontation at all costs, so they say things like rain check, or they don't even show up, answer their phone or call you back and the reason is because well they don't care or they don't want to look like the bad guy, so they avoid it, cause if they avoid something it's like it never happened. Sounds crazy right? Welcome to the world of women. You gotta learn how to keep them under control or they go off the reservation, and if you let them do that you become a door mat. Its that simple if you know how to keep them under control they won't disrespect you.

[WhatIsThisIDont]

I honestly don't understand why people treat other people like crap. I just dont. I'm a firm believer in the golden rule as well and its very easy for me to place myself in others shoes. I dunno, maybe its an observer trait or something. People tend to look down on those who are introverted because they know they won't act out about it. Experiment: Maybe when you see her you should give her hell about it. She might get angry at you for it but at least she will respect you a bit more as a person.

[Asker]

Yea I do that a lot as well

put myself in other shoes as well

[ryanontario]

i've been trhu some of the same with girls , I honestly think I try hard to get to know them and try to be friends with them , but a lot of the time I just end up geting treated like crap and geting left in the dust and then don't hear from them . honestly not sure how or why they decide to do stuff like this to certain guys and not others . they seem to have there reasons and can get all worked up over little things

[soccerplya18]

What kind of disrespect are you talking about?

[Asker]

Where me and this girl were suppossed to hang out and she becomes MIA the day before

[April07]

Guy's do it to me all the time. I have no idea.

[soccerplya18]

You just haven't found the right girl. Keep looking because as long as you treat girls like you respect them...they should respect you back. No one deserves to be stood up. She should not only treat you like a prince but you should treat her like a princess.