What would do if your girlfriend became a feminist?

[Anonymous]

[iiWolvie]

Whats wrong with having a feminist girlfriend? She just wants the same rights as men do. I don't see any problem & feel like if you have to do anything you must support her all the way ^.^ Unless your against girls being equal to men then i suggest you break up :\ or at least talk about it.

[Asker]

You speak as though feminism is about being equal to men. Ha!

[iiWolvie]

Here is the definition of feminism
: Feminism is a collection of movements and ideologies that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve EQUAL political, economic, cultural, personal, and social RIGHTS for women. This includes seeking to establish EQUAL opportunities for women in education and employment.

[Prettygurl12]

I'm a feminist. My relationship is going well. So I don't know what you think exactly is wrong with your girlfriend wanting equality and what hell you think that would turn your relationship into?

[Asker]

As if modern-day feminism has anything to do with equality!

[Prettygurl12]

It does. Ignorance on your part or highlighting of extremists by the media does not change the true goal of feminism. Sorry.

[Asker]

The "true goal of feminism" is female dominance and superiority, and the subjugation of men and boys. And that's the way it's practiced in every area of life in America in 2015.

[Prettygurl12]

The true goal of feminism is equal social, economic, political, and religious representation of women.

[Asker]

Right... at the cost of all the things you listed as they relate to men.

[Prettygurl12]

50/50 does not equal 75/25. So yes, the party in power has to give up some of that. Sorry that that upsets you. And now you understand why the feminist movement is STILL around.

[Asker]

You must be really ignorant about all the men and boys are going through today thanks to feminists.

[Prettygurl12]

And you are ignorant of what women go through. Welcome to the divide between the genders and why the feminist movement will likely never go anywhere, better get used to it.

[Asker]

Really? You are really trying to make a case of hard things are for women in 2015? Yes, I just cannot believe how oppressed you must be.

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[Prettygurl12]

Women as a whole? You would be SHOCKED. Me personally? I'm doing pretty well. I am very blessed in my life. But women as a whole throughout the world? Don't you dare sit and tell me you actually believe there's equality everywhere. That would be laughable.

[Asker]

Equality? Women don't want equality. They want power. Equality would mean they register for the draft, go through the same military training as men (physically impossible in most cases), fight on the frontlines of battle, have judges take their children away most of the time for the father to raise, while you pay alimony to your ex-husband and child support as well, be depicted as a worthless and useless idiot by the media and on TV and in the movies, never have a gentleman do anything for you because you can do it yourself, never have a guy pay for dinner for you. Take on jobs that only men do, get no ladies night specials or any other privileges for being a women or for being attractive (and there are many), and have your femininity taken away by society so you are basically stripped down to a little girl, and be in a co-ed prison, if you ever must go there. I could list 100 other unpleasant things about a woman being "equal" to a man. I don't want that. No one really wants that.

[Prettygurl12]

I'm all for everything you listed. Because I am a true feminist.

[Prettygurl12]

Now, I know you're older, but it IS 2015. Stop living in the '50s.

[Nobodycares]

The term 'feminist' has changed. The term for what you are is turning into 'gender egalitarian'.

Too many feminists these days are only concerned about womens' issues, and not the flip side.

[musicbrain5]

Probably the same thing that I would do if my partner became a crazy MRA nut. Break up.

[Asker]

What's wrong with supporting men's rights? I am a strong advocate. but am hardly a "nut".

[musicbrain5]

I'm a strong advocate for everybody's rights, so there's nothing wrong with it. It would become a problem if you became one of the crazy misogynist ones who say women are worthless scum and you want to have supreme dominance over them, just as the crazy feminists of today do with men.

[Asker]

That's fair.

[Roycaryn]

Most people don't just "become" a feminist in the middle of a relationship. For me, it really depends on her individual attitudes and opinions as to how I'm going to react.

[IMADETHIS]

Immediate break up

[Asker]

Yes! You win MHO.

[goretcki]

If she's one of the ones that wants equality, I'm fine with that. If she becomes one of those man hating crazy ones that makes the most noise, immediate breakup.

[Asker]

The latter describes the true feminist of today.

[The_Technomancer]

Depends on how she views the world and men afterwards.

[llorando]

Depends on how much of a feminist she became, but most likely I'd kick them to the curb asap as most feminist are too extreme.

[crumpet]

Do you know what feminism means? It is about equality.

[Asker]

Yeah, right! The dictionary definition perhaps. In practice, it is the female dominance and superiority, and the absolute subjugation of men and boys. And that's the way it's practiced in every area of life in America in 2015.

[StickStickity13]

Tell her to make me lunch

[Asker]

Haha!

[grahamcracka]

I don't know if I can do a hairy girl :/

[Asker]

What does being hairy have to do with feminism. I can't tolerate feminists, but LOVE hairy women.