Would you describe yourself as " submissive"? If so how would you describe yourself? And would you say it's your "condition" or how you " act"?

[Anonymous]

[EricMik]

This looks like a gal oriented question, but i'll throw my view out.

Politically, And Socially, I'm a Libertarian, and an egalitarian. I like young women who have a say in the relationship, but give me the options that she likes, so that i can have the final say. Unlike in a fictional patriarchal society, i very much appreciate a complex women, with some backbone, and a variety of interests.

Though, i can say i like aspects of the Traditional Woman, It feels like they're all the same. But please, Despite what "I like" or others, please be yourself.. I've found that it's helped me more than any advice, or any artificial cover.

[Asker]

Not it's not woman oriented. I don't see why you'd think it was as there is an option to ask only one sex if you choose and I chose to ask everyone.

It is an everyone question:)

[Asker]

So you would not consider yourself submissive?

[EricMik]

As a man, I wouldn't describe myself as submissive, But I'm not exactly the authoritarian either. This is actually kind of hard to answer.

Around men, I'm usually the Alpha-Dog in my groups. I've got the full authoritarian feel, and the entire room stops when i speak, in a way. People listen to my game plan, and i make amends to satisfy the group.

(Wow... This is a much harder question to answer...)

In a male female relationship, I'm only as strong and powerful as she lets me be. She lets me protect her from Danger, She lets me make the final choice, she lets me hold the door for her. She controls her pants, not me. Even if i had that power over her, It'ed still be her. (Women and Children first.)

The woman holds all the power in the relationship. (But i wouldn't call myself submissive, it's so very really weird to explain... Pardon that grammar...)

[Asker]

If you make the final choice would you say that is like you have the final " will"? If not how is it different?

And what is it about making the final choice that you are drawn to?

Have you ever been in a relationship where the final choice was made together ; or by whoever was more skilled to make it- depending on the context.

[Klaatu51]

submissive... only towards girls basically... nowhere else!

[Asker]

Can you describe how you feel it behave or however whatever it is that you consider being submissive manifests itself in you?

[Klaatu51]

i like the girl being stronger, taller, bigger than me... this

[Asker]

But how are YOU submissive?

Liking someone stronger does to make you submissive personally.. Do you let her make all your decisions for you? Order you around tell you what to do say think?

[Klaatu51]

no i mean submissive only physically... not making decisions about me!

[Asker]

So how are you submissive physically? Submission is an act of submitting or a state of submission. But neither has to do wth size...

[Asker]

I guess you mean you prefer to be diminutive relatively. Not submissive:)

[Anonymous]

In my current relationship, I'm very submissive, but only in the bedroom. Everywhere else, I'm pretty much the dominant one.

[Asker]

Yeah I only mean in relationship area sex is hard to point out bc one persons act of submission is another's act of dominance... Though technically it's not really submissive unless he actually has power to do things you don't want him to. And even then bc of civil law and human rights, a person can't actually do anything someone does not consent to without their consent/ permission.

How would you say you're dominant in the rest if the relationship?

[Opinion Owner]

Partly, because of differences in personality, income, and age, I tend to be the one who makes the decisions or at least makes the final decision.

[Asker]

You're older and make more?

How much older?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I make more money and I'm 12 years older.

[Asker]

Cool:-)

[MrExplorer]

No, I have never considered myself submissive, but I learned to compromise.