My fiancé doesn't value my opinion unless it's his friends idea or his own, how can I get him to understand and respect me?

[Megeanb92]

[bomba78]

that is a huge red flag sweetie. By not valuing your opinion he is directly diesrespecting you as a person. And I'm even more sorry to say, that this might even lead to emotional abuse. Because your opinions means less to him than anybody elses or maybe it even means nothing to him.
Are you shure this guy is the one you want to marry

I mean, he will be your life partner and you'll be his. How is that ever going to work if he doesn't respect you?

The only way to get his respect is to confront him about it. Next time he dismisses what you have to say, you get mead as fuck and tell him that you are sick of him demeaning your opinion. Ask him if he even thinks of you as an equal life partner at all.
Once he feels that you will not put up with his crap it might mean the end to you two (If he even brushes this off, it might really be time to pack your bags), but it could also mean a fresh start.

If he even brushes this off, it might really be time to pack your bags.

[stephx]

does he usually disrespect women? is he usually like that towards all women or just you? if he doesn't respect your opinions, sorry but that is a bad sign...

[slatyb]

You can't change him. DO NOT MARRY THIS MAN. He does not love you. He may love your body, or he may love the idea of being married to you, but he does not love you and he does not respect you. He already treats you more like his property than a person. You deserve better. Being single would be better.

[LoveBeingBad]

thats a pretty big thing, if he doesn't value the opinion of his soon to be wife and life partner then do you really wanna be with someone like that?