My boyfriend's a jerk, but I still love him!

[bailleejayne]

I have this boyfriend, we've been going out for a near 8 months. I love him so much, and he says he loves me too. but he's always hanging with other girls instead of me, & can't control when his 'manhood' pops out [if you get what I mean]. all my friends say to dump his sorry ass, but I still love him. then my best friend, who is my ex [we went out for 2 years] says he loves me.. & everyone says that I should go out with him, because he cares for me way more than my boy friend does.. I just don't know what to do. I really really love my boyfriend, but he can be such an ass all the time!

[devin3200]

Well it looks like your friends have answered your question. I know it's hard to make a choice of this nature but for some strange reason it will pass. You need to look at yourself and say do I deserve this? Have I done everything I could do in this relationship? Than when you find that answer to yourself. You'll make the move. You might not want to go backwards, you want to move forward. Seeing as you had one boyfriend for 2 years and another for 8 months. Yes the one for 2 years maybe be the way to go. But remembe why you broke up in the first place. In some instances you can never go home again. The hurt is just too Much. Hope this helps.

[Anonymous]

Your only going to get hurt if you continue dating him. If he is fooling around while dating you and you let him get away with it, he will not just stop one day, in fact that's just like a get out a jail free card for him to do it as much as he wants because there is no consquence.

[Anonymous]

you being so tolerant and accepting of his behavior because "you love him" is not helping the cause at all. he is a jerk, his behavior is selfish, he seems inconsiderate, but as long as he tells you he loves you you're willing to accept that? its time to do what is best for you and move on. you deserve better than someone who is an ass all the time. just like you can fall in love with someone you can also fall out of love, its not a permanent state. why stay with someone who treats you like that? you're wasting your life!

[CrazynKinky]

He's a guy there all ass's (Sorry guys but it's true). Is he hanging out with another girl cause there friends cause if that's the case don't be a jealous twit! If he's under 16 no he's not going to be able to control his "manhood" pops out god couldn't you just say boner or erection lol. He's a guy they see something nice it'll stand at attention. Hell my best friend get a boner around me all the f***ing time but he doesn't want me

[And-Once-I-Was-Human]

if you feel like he's neglecting you because he's flirting with other girls you're gonna have to tell him how it makes you feel when he does that. if it continues or he takes it even further you should probably consider moving on cus he clearly doesn't respect your feelings

as for the boner part, guys can't really help that..just kinda happens sometimes whenever we see a hot chick or something else arousing and sometimes it just happens out of no where

[Titi18]

Think with ur mind not ur heart, befor you get hurt!