My ex contacted me because she really likes her fuck body and he does not like her. I don't know how to react properly?

[a_man]

We broke up because I moved very far away (14hrs of time difference). She really likes him because he is a bad guy, hot and really good in bed. (BIG PLAYER). And she wants him real bad een though she is hurt. Also, this guy is spending time with other girls on his birthday. Now, my ex wants to talk about her romance life with me but I get mixed feelings. I don't really know what to say to her. Yes, it does piss me off. I just want to say something mature.
I want to support her but I don't want to be disrespected as "nice guy".

Also, she asked me to text her often beause she is depressed. (She actually said depressed).

She said she liked me because I was very faithful and care about her unlike other guys.

Tell me how you would handle this situation, or how to be supportive without being disrespected.

She is 21, and I am 25.

Updates

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Update. She unfollows me on instagram after not chatting for 3 weeks. I ask her what is going on. She said a new guy she is dating does not want her to follow her ex. That's fine except that she still follows her ex before me and the fuckbody that I mentioned in my original question. She does not explain why. She says "whatever."

She said she unfollow me because we are done. Does not make much sense to me.

I guess this is what I get for dating a girl not woman.

[Yokoneko]

I've done this, contacted a ex to ask why I let my self be played , because he on fact played me.
The only thing you can do it say how you feel, you guys dated and whether she's distraught right now or not she should know your not the type to say what someone wants to hear. Let her know how he is what he does and how it makes her look, will it get through to her maybe, maybe not but she came to you for help and the truth will help. And that info on their sex you need to let her know that's not kewl in the slightest and to drop that on a close female friend.

[Anonymous]

Tell her that fuck buddy relationships aren't healthy. That she should look for a serious relationship instead of sex. Tell her that she should look for someone else.

Honestly this was really inappropriate of her. Why doesn't she talk to her girl friends about this.

[a_man]

She wants her friends to think she can get any guys that she wants and dont want to show them that she can't. My ex is a bit shallow and young

[a_man]

Also, my ex never wants to commit so much on relationships. I think she contacted me because the guy forgot about her birthday 3 weeks ago and I didn't and that made her feel better

[guy532]

Being nice and being a pushover are two different things. Tell her the truth. Tell her you don't like hearing about her romantic life because it bothers you, you'll support her in other matters, just not that one. There's nothing wrong with that, stand up for yourself.

[a_man]

Yeah, good point. Thanks, I just needed to heat that from someone.

[Pyrofox]

If i were you id make the polite move and try to get her on a different tangent than her relationship.

[Nicolás25]

Don't she chose that type of guy she can suffer the consequences

[a_man]

I would, but i want to more graceful and mature about this

[Nicolás25]

ok than be compassionate and helpful don't think about how much better you treated her or any of that because that will only cause anger and resentment finally just know that sometimes no matter how hard you try to be supporting and helpful there's nothing you an do so just remember that there always comes a point where the person either listens to your advice or continues down the wrong path in which case there's nothing else to do it's off of your hands.

[a_man]

yeah, you are right about the resentment part. I did treat her well, and was feeling some resentment towards her as I hear how much she is into him.

[NerdInDenial]

It sounds like a her problem and not yours. Stop wasting your time and focus on yourself. Find some girls closer to you.