Guys, why do I keep attracting fuckboys?

[Anonymous]

I am a very loyal person, and I want to be with someone that's loyal as well. Unfortunately, all the guys that ask for my number only want to sleep around. As soon as I tell them I don't have sex with guys unless they can be committed to me, they stop talking to me. I don't dress or act like a slut so I don't understand why only players approach me... What do I do?

[Anonymous]

Your age, most men your age, don't settle down, they're in college, or getting in to professional sports whatever it is, they just don't want to start families at your age, I'm sorry but that's how it is. You should be worried about your own life, not about why men won't approach you for something serious. It reeks of desperation

[Asker]

If I was desperate I would be accepting their offers...

[Tanuron]

Well to put it like this, I always been very loyal, but I never asked a girl for her number. Think its kinda typical, players are always the approachers, the loyal ones may never actually approach you. I always been kinda reserved anyway.

[Anonymous]

You'll never know how much I hate the term "fuckboy". It's like nails on a chalkboard man. But onward to your question; guys like sex and I think it's really just that simple. Saying no sex up-front sends them the signal that they'll have to either work harder or move onto an easier target. Seeing that they tend to move on it's obvious their true intention. Either way it's a win for you because you get to weed out the ones who aren't worth it quicker.

[Anonymous]

The guys that have the nerve to approach seem to be players, so maybe find a cute guy and approach him? You might have to do that, eh? Considereing the latter type of guy won't approach for whatever reason.

[RandomUsername3464]

Can someone please explain to me, right here and now, what a fuckboy actually is?

[Dave20153]

Fwb's, or one night stands. Basically she uses him or he uses her, for sex, but, don't do anything else. When really, all they could do is masturbate. Of course the dilemma there is well "I want sex", right? Well, why use someone?

[RandomUsername3464]

@Dave20153 Right. Well, lets face it, nothing is going to change. If someone doesn't want to be used for sex, then they shouldn't put out. Problem solved.

[Dave20153]

Problem is, why should they not put out?

[RandomUsername3464]

@Dave20153 I don't want to get into a back and forth here Dave, you want to argue for the sake of arguing. That's like asking, why should I not stick my arm in that wood chipper? We already know the result. They can't complain about "fuckboys" when they are half of the problem.

[Dave20153]

They don't want to admit they have a problem

[MrGroove]

Maybe it's the places you visit or the guys you're into. You have to consider most guys are like that (I despise "fuckboys"), so it's mostly a matter of time and luck before you find someone worth it.

[Nik1hil]

Cause you are too sexy, and have a smoking hot ass, and a sexy of sexy tits

[hotstuffSRD]

Simple
Find a guy like me 😂 lol
Haha sorry
It's good that you're loyal
Don't worry one a day a I'll approach you 😁

[Anonymous]

Because they're not ready for a relationship.

[Anonymous]

becuz all guys are fuckboys ;)