How to separate yourself apart when a girl has many suitors, ladies?

[Anonymous]

A lot of men are pursuing this girl.

We've been sort of friends for a long time, recently - just a day ago reconnected and Im just sort of wondering, not really in her case, potentially, but more for future prospects -

she has many guys after her, even her ex -

what do girls really look for above everything when they've got upwards of 5+ guys on them at one time?

I'm more or less trying to figure out aside from obviously whatever she's interested in and 'being myself' what else is there maybe I can do?

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also, you as girls, how do you really decide? is there always one guy in particular that no matter what everyone else does stands out - do you find yourself liking another, yet someone else approaches you and changes that 180 degrees? any advice would be great.

[justbanANNAz]

the key is very simple. u want to be set apart? look at her, and let her know, show her what sets HER apart.

a lot of men fail in this area by the way.
you need to remember the little things about her. the freckle near her lip. she likes eating watermelon in triangle shaped slices, when she's concentrating she taps her finger on her thigh... stuff like that.

stuff like she's beautiful, she's sweet, she's kind, is all well and good, but it doesn't set u apart. any guy can notice that. what can YOU notice?

[Asker]

very good point. I'll definitely key in on this.

[justbanANNAz]

please do =]

[Phoenix98]

It's on the right side by the way and you have two more under it on the same side.

[justbanANNAz]

@Phoenix98 ... Yes, yes i do. ☺️

[Phoenix98]

Heh yeah almost in a line, you like spontaneously making things out of fruit/food to.

[WhatAreYouReading]

I mean in my opinion you never want to seem desperate. You always want to seem like you could get other girls but choose her & do it subtly... not like you are trying to prove anything. Past that I don't know depends on what she's attracted to but that may give you a leg up competitively.

[Phoenix98]

You just have to simply show her what makes you stand out among the others what makes you unique, different. Maybe it's how you look at her or how she is in your mind, the important as well as the little things that make her who she is, and how you couldn't possibly see her as her without any of them.

[Phoenix98]

Stuff like that, it's not really that hard if your genuinely like her.

[Polocrew]

I mean If it was me in situation, I'd remind her how I am only 10/10 there.

[MarkTwain]

Do you know how sexual economics works?

[Asker]

yea, what are you suggesting