Why do so many black women want mixed kids, but aren't really interested in the guy?

[Anonymous]

I notice with a lot of black women they aren't physically or sexually attracted to white guys, but date them and have families with them just to have mixed kids and the obsession with them having "good hair" or lighter skin. My sister and her friends all did this. They aren't sexually attracted to their husbands, (in actuality they much prefer black men) and only really went to white guys because they want mixed kids who they think are cuter and because there aren't enough eligible black men.

A lot of the times its them just dating or marrying these white guys or men of other races simply to have cute kids eventhough they prefer black men phsyically and sexually and as a marriage partner.

I think its weird how black women praise mixed children. You should marry and date for love, not because you want your kids to have "good hair"

If so many black women want mixed looking kids then go to a sperm bank and get white sperm donors or simply just have one night stands with white guys to get pregnant and raise the baby on your own, but don't marry or date another race knowing full well you don't really love or like them just to have cute kids.

[Anonymous]

So many other races do the same thing. -_- I'm not a fan of white guys and don't want children with one. I only realized this while wrapped in the arms of my nude white ex-boyfriend. As we gazed into the mirror that morning, he whispered into my ear, "we'll make beautiful children together". Nope nope nope. I love my husband, even though he's not the same race as me I still wish our children will have my skin and hair, but I have no idea what my baby will look like. So oh well. So many girls don't believe black is beautiful and are jealous of other shade of brown. That's why they are desperate for mixed children.

[Asker]

That's good. Not to say all black women do this, but its good to see some black women who are woke and want black kids. In fact most black women prefer black men and having black kids, but its just a lot more nowadays are jumping on the mixed kid nonsense

[Anonymous]

I'm Asian and I think mixed kids are the cutest and very attractive. I want my future child to be half white. So i exclusively date white men or even if i end up marrying an Asian guy I will find an anonymous tall Scandinavian dude to be my donor.

[Asker]

Asian women are even worse than black women when it comes to this problem. Asian women literally worship white men, at least black women can't stand and don't actually prefer white men. They just want mixed kids

[Opinion Owner]

lol, white men love us too. Yellow fever is real where I live!!!

[Asker]

They love Asian women, because you guys literally worship them. They don't get that anywhere else

[Opinion Owner]

hahah but i don't i rejected so many white dudes in my lifetime...

[Asker]

Ok, that doesn't remove the fact that you in general want white guys and prefer mixed kids because some of warped self hatred issues or your belief that white genes are superior.

[Opinion Owner]

Asian and white combination is bomb!!! i have the best hair.

[Zombie-Killa]

You are a delusional pro-black ass clown making asinine racial attacks against white men. You and a couple of the people that answered your question need to realize what disgusting and toxic people you really are, and white men are not inferior to anybody.

[Asker]

What attacks against white guys have I made? You're delusional

[Zombie-Killa]

This whole question was just one big excuse to say white guys are inferior and to say the only reason a black woman would ever get with one is to have half-white babies lol
What the ever loving fuck is that shit?

[Sixgun77]

No it wasn't. Re-read, there are no attacks against white men.

[Zombie-Killa]

@Sixgun77 Not any direct attacks, But a lot of passive aggressive ones.
And its very telling that the only interracial combination this chick and several other people have a problem with are ones involving white men.

[Asker]

Not my fault you're super sensitive and can't read my question correctly. Nowhere did I attack white men.

[Zombie-Killa]

Ok, But you singled them out bigger than hell.

[Thandz01]

I feel ya i'm mixed with good hair and for the most part thats all they want but i know that so i ignore it.. i hate it its like just go be with a black guy instead of fakin it with me smh love folks for who they are not what they got or their appearance.

[Jat_guy]

I don't think so. There are other ethnics that intermarry with white or black. My cousins married a lot of white people and they didn't do this for specific reasons but they wanted to share their lives together. They're happy. Kids are very cute. They have cross cultures and engage/integrate with other family members/aqaintances very nicely. Black people I know marry because they genuinely are attached to their partner and there's no hidden agenda.

[Transigence]

I think thinking about your offspring is perfectly legitimate for your preferences.

I want light brown kids myself, for selfish, biological, evolutionary reasons. I'd prefer to stay with my partner, at least until the children are out of the house, preferably for life, though. Don't get me wrong, I want a good, loving relationship. I just... want it with a very, very dark woman who is tall, has a tall father, a rounded head, fat lips, and big muscles.

[Anonymous]

Because they understand white privilege, and they want a hope that their kids will have a small part of that. They still don't look white, so it's kind of silly.

I think Asian women are worse. They basically hate the kind of guys that end up being their sons.

[Asker]

Yes Asian women are way worse. Its quite disgusting

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, kind of worse, because in the case of Asians, it's usually not a matter of status or opportunity. In many cases, Asians are stereotyped as being even smarter than whites.

But Asian women are proof that all women prefer white men, in one way or another. Asian women get with them so often because white men like Asian women. If they didn't, Asian women would say they're 'not attracted to white men'.

[Asker]

Not really. Black women hands down for the most part aren't attracted to white men, hence the reason for this question. My sister, her friends and many black women in general who are married to and have kids with white guys have admitted to me that phsycially and sexually they aren't attracted to white guys, but marry them for prettier kids, even though they find black guys much better looking. These are all black women who have white guys, so they have no reason to lie when they admit that they prefer black women

[Opinion Owner]

The women you know don't speak for all black women.

[Asker]

I didn't say all black women. I said most don't prefer white men. And that's true. Stats, studies, etc.. show they don't by and large

[Opinion Owner]

It's not really scientific to conclude that, just like that. There is probably more at play, psychologically. I don't see somebody marrying just to have white kids, while despising their spouse, much less the majority of a race.

[Asker]

They don't hate their spouses, however they aren't physically attracted to them the way they are black men

[TheFlak36]

Because women are weak minded and always go for soothing foreign or simply the trend of their day. Whats most popular and commonly accepted.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxpVwBzFAkw

[chrisbigman]

I'm not sure. I wasn't aware this was the case. I'm a white guy, by the way. This certainly could explain why a black woman went on a date with me a while back. Granted, we didn't have sex or anything. But we could've.

[Asker]

She wanted to hit and quit?

[chrisbigman]

I guess.

[genericname85]

in my opinion girls develop a strong urge to have children at a certain age, completely ignoring the guy. they just focus on having a child, making that their top priority, which they regret in hindsight.

[Intraluminal]

Damn! All that baby making ans they don't enjoy it? That's sad.

[abundantlyrich]

You already answered your own question

[Anonymous]

Some white women do the same too. It's disgusting.