So I told this girl I liked her and she blocked me. What did I do wrong?

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So there is this Indian girl in my class as I like and I know as a black guy the chances of an indian girl going for me is pretty low unless i was rich or had a high paying job but anyways I went for it.

So I told this girl i liked her and she blocked me. What did i do wrong ?

So I message her over facebook and told her I like her and listed out some reasons. 30 minutes later I find out I'm blocked by her and she unfriended me.

I get being rejected but what I don't get is why go to that length to cut someone out for showing they like you? Was it my approach? Is it creepy to tell a girl you like her over FB than face to face? Was she so disgusted by my liking her she now hates me?

Answer 1

Anonymous

Sh'e not into you. Also, Indian girls are pretty dramatic - rather than politely declining, they prefer to wage war, in the form of passive aggression or a hate campaign. This girl isn't even that pretty - probably a 4/10 at best. With faces like that, there's no way I can get into being attracted to Indians. Let alone their personalities.

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bloodmountain1990 | 566 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Word of advice, don't post people's pictures on the internet. Especially after this happened. That just makes you look obsessive. Besides, you could have gotten your point across without that.

She might have overreacted. But how did you tell her that you like her? What was the context/wording?

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Answer 3

Kiara_larkin

Xper 4

maybe you shouldn't post this picture of her, and maybe she just doesn't like you like that and doesn't want to hurt you feelings by telling you in person. I don't know us girls are weird and we make NO sense most of the time.

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ummbaby

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woman don't take chances when it comes to strangers on the internet that leads to meeting up and from there bad things can happen, she's being careful and looking out for herself

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EllieLexis513

Yoda

How well did you know and talk to her before she did it?

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red324 | 254 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

I think girls always think guys are their friends and are oblivious to the fact that the guy might like them if they know each other for longer than a few months and he hasn't asked her out yet. So then 2 years goes by like in your case and you randomly ask her out, of course she freaks out cause after all this time she's never thought of you like that.

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Answer 7

WombRaider

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Well she is an above average kind of girl. She's probably got a bunch of guys trying to date her. She might even be dating already.

The reason why she blocked you is because you were weak. Only someone with weak game would tell a girl he likes her over FaceBook... it tells her you have no confidence.

I'd move on ASAP and avoid posting pictures of her here without her permission.

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Answer 8

Mailo

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A word to the wise.. Never post pictures without the owner's approval!
For your issue, you have to forget about her and get over it. Indian girls are no exception in the rejection game as most (shallow) girls do these days.

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Answer 9

slimstiffy

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Bro, im an indian guy and that has happened to me too. Dont sweat it. Some girls are just like that, and i think its not just indian girls. A lot of girls dont really know rejection and are therefore pretty cold about it...

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Answer 10

MyUsernameRules

Yoda

Indian girls like white guys outside of their race. Not black guys, unless they're rich, really tall or muscular.

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itsallover | 223 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

Why are you posting her picture without her permission?

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Asker

+1 y
Just wanted objectively whether i was overreaching for someone super attractive.
itsallover

+1 y
Would she be happy to know that her picture is now out for everyone to see on a public forum?

Answer 12

Asker

Just wanted objectively whether i was overreaching for someone super attractive.

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itsallover

Would she be happy to know that her picture is now out for everyone to see on a public forum?

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pooper89 | 753 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Guru

In my experience, Indian girls only date their own race and usually have arranged marriages

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Answer 15

Anonymous

I hope you had her permission to post her photo if that's her.

Obviously she didn't feel the same if she did that.

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Answer 16

Anonymous

It sounds like she is just not interested. She might of thought of you as a freinds and when you said that you liked her she felt betrayed.

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Answer 17

singlebee

Guru

How well did you know her? How many times did you talk to her

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Answer 18

JohnathonMoolenaar

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I'd double block you if I found out you were using my picture for all to see.
But goodluck anyway buddy oh pal.

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zagor | 1.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

Master

Did you know her very well before, or was she just someone in your class?

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Asker

+1 y
I knew her for about 2 years so far.
zagor

+1 y
I don't think she's unattainable by any means, in terms of looks. Teen girls can be pretty hard to figure out so don't lose any sleep over it. Obsessions do not turn out well - I know that from experience.

Shouldn't post other peoples pics tho...

Answer 20

Asker

I knew her for about 2 years so far.

Answer 21

zagor

I don't think she's unattainable by any means, in terms of looks. Teen girls can be pretty hard to figure out so don't lose any sleep over it. Obsessions do not turn out well - I know that from experience.

Shouldn't post other peoples pics tho...

Answer 22

mutedaisy

Guru

Because you steal her pictures and post them on websites...

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teatea111

+1 y
This ^^^^^^^

Answer 23

teatea111

This ^^^^^^^

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LordBlakeh

Xper 6

Not much of a loss, theirs plenty of fish in the sea.

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Answer 25

ImClara

Xper 4

Of course she blocked you! You posted her picture onto the internet without her knowing! How rude!

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Answer 26

someindianvnmc

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looking at the amount of makeup she got on her face i can tell she rejected you purely because ur not handsome. Indian girls are dumb bitches who think they are really hot while most of them look pathetic

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