Why did this girl block me?

[blissinanarchy1]

So I go to the gym with this girl but never really noticed her. We matched on tinder. We started talking and she said she was comfortable if I introduced myself in real life. So I did. We made small talk and vibed pretty well. I got her snapchat, then said text me when you’re done, and we’ll just get chair massages and have a conversation. So she got back on the elliptical for a bit and started talking on the phone, then rushed out the door. I texted her, asking if she’s okay, if somebody got hurt or something. She said her friend needed something. I said okay, are you coming back. She said “No, not today.” then I said I’ll see you tomorrow. I check back and she blocked me on snapchat and unmatched me on tinder. Wtf?

[Guy13]

You mentioned sex. You pushed sex. You thought she was Easy.

chair 🪑 💆‍♀️ massage 🪑 💆‍♂️ is NOT a first date idea 🙃. Ice cream 🍦 next time 😎

[blissinanarchy1]

No nothing was sexual. There’s literally a chair that massages you in there, we both get it done

[Guy13]

Women 👀 for 💩. She found it…. Give you my data and you think of couple massage… he’ll Nah

[ManOnFire]

Sorry you went through this, man. She might have been faking the phone call and used it as a reason to dash out of there so she wouldn't have to face you anymore. You may not have really meant to be weird in any way at all, but I doubt she blocked you for that.

It sounds like she either answered another booty call, maybe her ex or some guy she thought was more interesting, or even a guy she'd been longing for the whole time and he finally reached out. Either way, what she did by blocking you like that was really, really slimy and lowdown. I've experienced that in the past myself and I know how frustrating and confusing it is. Very poor social behavior and a very poor way of excusing herself from the situation. All I can say is the good news is that it does show you what kind of a woman she is and that you definitely would not want to continue further with her. Also, I doubt you're the first guy she's done that to. You don't want to have a connection with somebody like that. I know it's disappointing, but don't sit in it forever. Pick yourself back up and keep going. You got this.

[QuietVerbena]

Maybe she got back together with her ex. Or maybe she just lost interest.

[DubiousIntentions]

I think the massage comment turned her off.

[blissinanarchy1]

Massage chairs. Not as in me massage her. She understood this because we both were talking about the massage chairs

[DubiousIntentions]

Maybe that phone call was important to her and she didn't think it was your business. Then she found she didn't have time for any relationships at the time so shut it all down. Whatever the reason you would be better off just calling it a day and move on. You don't need the possible baggage.

[Anonymous]

tmdr. Move on. Do you understand what move on means? Because most don't and that's why they cannot move on. I'll explain if you need it.

[bubblegunnn]

Maybe she lost interested in u?