This girl has a boyfriend and she stares at me?

[Anonymous]

This girl was sitting with her boyfriend on separate occasions and both times, I think she was eying me up with the doe-eyed lusty look.Two different times, she turned and checked me out (I think)...

But the problem is, I think she has a boyfriend, or at least sits with some dude in the cafeteria. What do I? If anything? Or was she just looking?

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I don't want to go talk to her and get killed/beaten by her possible boyfriend...

[-StillWater-]

Well, my modest proposal here is for you to assess if that's really her boyfriend or not. Because if it is, and you two end up together, who can guarantee you that she's not just going to do the same to you, and if that's not her boyfriend than she's not a 'slut' or a 'tease', if he isn't her boyfriend, than there's a big chance that she's just genuinely interested in you.

And if the second possibility turns out to be true, than you should do something about it. . .

I don't know this girl, have never seen her, so I can't tell you what's the nature of their relationship, but if you could describe the situations in which you've seen them, than I may give you some inkling to whether they're together or not. Body language speaks for itself.

[Asker]

I've only seen her in the campus cafeteria... She sits with some guy and talks to him. Pretty much impossible to tell if they are together or not :(

[-StillWater-]

Do they sit next to each other of opposite to each other?

If they sit next to each other that means they're possibly together, but if they sit opposite to each other that means that one of them is into one another but aren't together or that they're just friends... - depending on the possibility of the opposite sexes being able to truly be just friends -

[Asker]

No they sat across from each other at a booth. I would think that would mean they are in a relationship. But if they sit next to each other, as in side-by-side, they are in a relationship?

[-StillWater-]

Yes. If their bodies are touching - like side to side, or even just arms, and especially if he's got his hand wrapped around her than that indicates physical intimacy, BUT if they're sitting opposite to each other, than that usually means they're not together, which doesn't mean that perhaps he doesn't like her or that maybe she doesn't like him in a more than platonic way, but considering the way she looks at you I'd say she likes YOU.Keep a close eye on them, and perhaps assess 4 yourself. ^_^

[anon8]

It's probably her friend if she is making it pretty obvious she's staring at you. You'll never know though until you talk to her.

[Reeses-pieces777]

she probably really likes how you look at least

she sounds like a flirt and she doesn't sound like she's too into her bf

[Gregs]

Most girls will have a "bore-friend" but it doesn't they are happy with them or are looking for something more. In this case you don't even know, the guy could be her gay friend or an orbirtor, her friend who likes her but doesn't have the guts to make a move so he hangs around hoping she will like him.

So go for it, the only way you know, and if she like the guy a lot just excuse yourself and say you didn't know

[chorboys]

if she has the look, she likes you. young girls are rarely faithful to anyone, honor and loyalty aren't really instilled in american girls, so you can probably swoop her up pretty quick.

[amandamaragni]

Thats not true, get your facts straight, I have been wiht my boyfriend for three years and have been faithful to him and him only.

[rasa_aesthetic]

I have a boyfriend and I flirt with and check out guys all the time. She could be just looking but probably wouldn't mind talking to you too! just make sure her boyfriend doesn't find out!

[Xenophobia]

Boyfriends are NOT stop signs...some girls are always trying to see if they can do better...IF they are not treated right.

[pinklady19]

Is she ever alone. If tht were me and you liked me but I had a boyfriend I would want you to give me your # or make it obvious but I don't know her so she may be a tease

[hohiwonderful]

Are you sure that the guy is her boyfriend?I think that the girl is interested in you..she has given you some hints and as a guy, if you like her, do what you should do..don't tell me you want a girl to make a move first?

[Anonymous]

i think that the girl is interested in you..is there anymore clues about the girl? I mean have you seen her at other place other than the cafeteria and the situation at that time?(when she's around?)